Friday, November 19, 2010

Would you break up with your boyfriend if?

i have my first boyfriend for like 3 weeks, and before that i really really liked him, i dont have the same feelings for him anymore. he thought a 3 month realation ship was short. i want to break up with him but i dont want to hurt his feelings. ive never broken up with a guy before, and i really dont want to be mean to him. how do i do it. please and thank you soooooooo much.



xoxo

cheese foreverWould you break up with your boyfriend if?
just tell him that you aren't feeling it anymore, and that maybe y'all would better as friends.of course, you have to make good on this statement, but let him take his time in regaining you guys' friendship(if he wants). eventually he'll move on and so will you [[this always seems to happen to me, and i hate having to break up with people]] I hope this helps!!Would you break up with your boyfriend if?
if u dont feel nything for him ...then stop playing around with his feelings and leave
you have to do what makes you happy, say what's in your heart and say it gently.. he will understand
It's not you its me.
Tell him the truth. Say that your feelings have changed and that you don't want a relationship anymore. It's going to hurt him no matter what (If he cares) and you will miss him aswell but if you don't really want to date him, then this your only option.
don't lead him on
I dont understand the xoxo cheese forever, btw. Go ahead if you dont like him
you gotta leave him. You'll hurt his feelings more if you continue this and then later on, you decide to break up with him. dont be a *****.
Tell him how you feel..pour out all your emotions....he might make it easier for you if he really loved you...
It's the same thing with many relationships. When you finally get something you've wanted for a long time, you don't want it anymore - the thrill is gone. If you truly don't have feelings for him, just tell him that. You still like him as friends but that's all.
Aha, so you made some illusions, regarding his personality.

Uhmm... I see no other way but to admit it. So, admit it

He will understand... I guess. Does he have a choice? No.

:-)

Good luck!
Say ';Im very sorry, but I dont want to lead you on. I am no longer interested in you, so there is no point in continuing this sort of relationship. I still like you, but as a friend....so lets try the friend thing. I want to be your friend, so i dont lose a great guy like you.';



and smile, he will pretend he doesnt care, but he will.

He will respect you though, for just being honest

GOOD LUCK!!!
well the only thing you can do it be easy about, be friendly and make sure he undertsands its just a change of your feelings. But no matter what, when you break off a relationship your automatically the bad guy. So your gonna have to understand that as well.



Good luck hunnie.
Just tell him that you need a break to sort a lot of thing thru in your head. its hard but you can do it
leading him on is gonna hurt him more in the long run just do it
just tell him u really dont think its working out between the two of u and tht ur breaking up with him and let him know u two can still be just friends hope i helped well of course i did



sincerely,

Dr. Love

xoxo
If you no longer have any feelings for him....break up with him. I know it may hurt his feelings but you can't possibly stay with someone whom you have absolutely no feelings for. You'll be in a relationship that no longer appeals to you. Besides, when you find someone else, you'll most likely end up breaking up with him anyways. But remeber this....never get with someone unless you are positive that your feelings for him are very strong and true....not a form of lust which alot of teenagers get. They think it's love when it's actually not.
when i had my first boyfriend i passed for the same situation u r passing now.i didn't know how to break up with a guy so i went to my bf and i told him ';we need to talk'; . so we started talking and i just said to him ';u know i like u but i don't feel comfortable with ur relationship, i felt better being friends, i think be friends will be the best for both'; and he said i think so too and if u wanna come back i'll be waiting for u ... hehhe but sure this never happened
try to be nice just let him know that things aren't working out too good for you and that you want to break up with him
Just tell him your not ready and give him some cheese lol.

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