Is it right to break up with your boyfriend when he is struggling?

My boyfriend is going through a financial rut some other things we have a baby together.He's talking about getting married and moving in together but i don't plan on putting my eggs in one basket. He's going to school for massage therapy right now. Spite how he treats me i still try to stay with him. I'm not a mean person and I'm very respectful to peoples opinion...Anyway I'm scared that when he gets on his feet with all that is going on he will leave me. Some opinions please if i break up with him he thinks i am seeing another guy and I'm not a girl to cheat. I feel I'm in a emotional rut too. He hurt me once and I don't want to be hurt again..i don't know wut i might do. Wut should i do i'm afaid.Is it right to break up with your boyfriend when he is struggling?
i think right now is not a good time to break up with ypur boyfriend as he is strugging and u can also talk to him b tur fear of him leaving u, mayb tht myt sort things out. esp wen u havea baby u shud think if u were to break up how it would effect the baby.Is it right to break up with your boyfriend when he is struggling?
Such a tough situation. Bottom line is this: If he wasn't in school, would you stay with him? Do you get what you need from the relationship? You can still be there for your child, but doesn't mean you need to be in an intimate relationship. There is no good time to leave. Breaking up hurts whether you just won the lottery or were evicted from your home so that shouldn't influence your decision. Good luck.
If you two are having a baby and he is working towards staying toether he is the real deal . Stick with him . Also even if he did eventualy leave (i dont think he will ) he will have had good way to provide for your child . (dont shoot yourself in the foot )



He does want to marry you . You probably along with him need couples therapy either through psychological paradigm or a church paradigm . Your emotions are running rampant due to pregnancy as well .



After you two have a baby , after he has passed his massage school training and recieved his degree re-evaluate from there . If he marries you though he is committed .You owe it to yourself , you owe it to your daughter and to him to try to work through this .Dont pack up and run at the first sign of trouble but do not be passive either . get couple counseling .
U know u cant leave someone u care abt espl when he is in a critical situation......the best thing to do is dont hurt him just try to help n talk with him...dont be scared just be helpful n talk. n if he hurts U try to move on cuz he is not the only guy on earth. guys come on go.....just thing abt it n do watever ur heart desires.



good luck!!!
it sounds like y'all need some counseling. because there's very little communication. and u need eachother, b4 u make that big step, talk. maybe u can work everything out. ( or atleast start)
The problem here isn't him, it might be a little bit of you. Your insecurities are tearing you guys apart. If you're not supporting him financially, his schooling isn't going to make him leave you; it's just a way for him to better himself. If you are paying for his schooling, I can see how you might have these fears, but if you love him, you'd want to work through it.



You two need to have a long, open discussion. No fighting, no mean words, just talk and listen. Tell him about your fears - and if you can't be honest with him, you're in a bad relationship because love and honesty go together. If he's talking about getting married, he's probably not going to leave you. It sounds like he wants to make things better for all of you, baby included. You need to work out why you feel this way and if you really want to be with him. Time for some soul searching.