how to break up with your boyfriend: 2010

Sunday, November 21, 2010

Girls: would you break up with your boyfriend like this? what would you call this?

ok you dont have feelings for your bf anymore!! would you stop talking to him again (myspace, facebook, phone, text) or cheat or move on? without telling him how you feel??

P.S. he didnt cheat or do anything bad to you he's even gave you a second chance in being with him in the past!Girls: would you break up with your boyfriend like this? what would you call this?
break up with him. use that ';its not you, its me'; thing. but dont just stop talking to him altogether without telling him why. thats messed upGirls: would you break up with your boyfriend like this? what would you call this?
I would just break up with him right away.

Don't cheat or anything like that. Break up first, then find another guy.
ohh well your the bad person in this. i guess you should do the right thing. say your not good enoug for him. and then go with some other guy. that makes him feel better and then you get to move on without anybody knowing.
I would say ';Hey, I don't have feelings for you anymore. Buh-bye.';

Would anyone be willing to answer mine please?

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What if you want break up with your boyfriend but don't wanna be single ?

my boyfriend moved to fl with us back in feb. he lived with my mom brother me and my step dad for awhile for free until he found a place. we used to like in Jersey he lived with his dad. me(19) him (20) well he always late on his rent and sometimes doesn't even pay. well the lady i used to work for sister is his roommate he lives with. that how i know about him not paying and his room a mess. we were about to get engaged but he had to give back the ring to get money for rent. should i break up with him? i don't want to because i don't wanna be single. what should i do we been together for 16 months i really loved him but i want a reasonable boyfriend that can take care of me if we did ever get married what should i do?What if you want break up with your boyfriend but don't wanna be single ?
Tell him you want a break until he can clean himself up and behave like a man you want to marry and that you know who will mke you happy.

How do you break up with your boyfriend?

kay, so I'm 13. I have a boyfriend, named kevin. we NEVER see eachother, so i can't see why he 'loves' me so much. Oh, and thats another thing. last night he was texting me and the last thing he wrote was: well I hate to let you go, but my phones about to die, i love you, sweet dreams. %26lt;---yeah, it sounds cute, but i found it creepy.

i really want to break up with him, he doesn't seem so right for me. But how?

I don't think I should do this in person. I'm thinking a very nice text messasge.

(the text I'm just about to send)

hey kevin... I was thinking, maybe we should not see eachother anymore. I think we should just stay friends.

^ its simple and get straight to the point, but what if hes a cry-er!?!?!

no, i don;t think hell cry, but w/e.

what do you think?How do you break up with your boyfriend?
First of all, this doesn't even sound like a serious or mature relationship so ';breaking up'; in this situation is easy. Tell him that you realized when he said what he said in his text was freaking you out and you think it would be in both your best interests to be friends and only friends. The worst thing that could happen is the awkwardness around each other later in person.How do you break up with your boyfriend?
Breaking up via text message is a big no-no.

At least have the decency to call him, if you can't tell him in person.
Your 13!!!!!! you shouldn't even have a boyfriend at this age....and to top it off why is he saying he LOVES you!!!!!!!!!!!!?????????? your still a kid!!!! Good Luck you'll need it!
okay. im 13 too. my past boyfriends have told me they love me within the first month that we went out. its not like they are in love with me. its like they have love FOR me. youll discover you have love for alotta people. but; you probably dont wanna break up by text. but if you wanna end it like now %26amp; you dont see him frequently, then call %26amp; tell him before you text him./ hunn. %26amp; dont say some made up crap to make him feel good. tell him exactly how you feel. he should totally understand.
if you don't have feelings at all, it's fine. you can do whatever you want.
no way, NEVER do it over text. Its rude and not classy at all... and it will get around that you did it and you'll end up with a bad rep... trust me i've seen it happen before.

Just stop talking to him... through texting etc, and the next time you see him... tell him what you were going to over text (even if it takes a couple of days). You will feel so much better and its nicer for both of you to do it that way

plz help me?
No, you definately shouldn't do it over text messages, or online or over the phone.

You really need to break up with him in person, face-to-face. This will show you are more serious and mature about it, and at least it won't be as bad in the end. You should tell him that you want to be friends, but you just don't think a relationship is going to work at the moment.

Hope this helps!
You really should tell him in person. It's the polite thing to do. But, if you rarely see him in person then you should at least do it with a phone call and not a text. He deserves that much.

How do you break up with your boyfriend of 5 years?

Me and my bf have been together for the past 5 years. I live with him. Everything has sort of been going down hill for the past 2 years since I started college. He's still madly in love with me and wants to spend the rest of his life with me. I however, still love him, but I want to get more out of life. He's my first real boyfriend and I always feel like I'm missing out on something. Should I break up with him or should I just suck it up and try to make the sparks ignite again?How do you break up with your boyfriend of 5 years?
Try some time apart for maybe a week or two. If you live together, you are around each other all of the time. You can't miss him if he's constantly around you. Stay with friends or your parents for a little bit. If you don't miss him at all, then chances are you aren't in love with him any more. But if you miss him the whole time you are gone, then you should stay together.How do you break up with your boyfriend of 5 years?
k, this is serious and u shouldnt lead him on. yoou cant just suck it up and see if things will start again.

i think you need to break upo with him. you say things have been going downhill for 2 years. it will probably keep going downhill. and you said that he wants to spend the rest of his life with you, imagine if you did stick it out and you got married and 5 more years down the road, you want to divorce.

BREAK UP WITH HIM!!!!!

u arent being fair to yourself and him
with a five year relationship it is always worth trying to make things work out in your favor. However, if you try and get nothing out of it and you still feel like it isn't going to work, then the best thing to do is sit him down and explain to him that you want more out of life, and you can't see yourself progressing through life if you are together. Explain that it's not that he's a bad person, or a bad boyfriend, but that you just need to be able to do this for yourself. Chances are, he'll say that he'll work really hard at being better, and he most likely will. You can either let him work on being better if you want to keep the relationship, or you can let him know that you think it would be better to just try things on your own for a while and end it there.
maybe ya should give it 1 last try,tell him how u feel and see can ya get the spark back again.you can still do all the things u want to do ...maybe he would want them things too.talk it thru with him an if u still feel the same after trying maybe the relationship has run its course.good luck x

How do you break up with your boyfriend if he's madly in love with you?

I'm a gay man in my first relationship that has lasted over a year. I've come to realize that I'm bored and not happy with my relationship, and I'm leaning towards wanting to end our relationship.

What's the best way to break up with my boyfriend if he's very in love with me, and he didn't know I was discouraged with our relationship? I love him, but I'm not IN LOVE with him, and I'm scared of breaking his heart most of all...

He talks about our future often and he thinks I'm THE ONE for him, and he basically made me promise I will never leave him. I'm stuck in a rut and I need help getting out!

Thank you!How do you break up with your boyfriend if he's madly in love with you?
tell him youve decided to go straight and see how the greater hetero way is. How do you break up with your boyfriend if he's madly in love with you?
well just be honest with him, and tell him exactly what you said in the question ';you love him but your not in love with him'; thats all you really can do. if your not feelin it then you should just end it. its better to tell him then to lead him on...plus i know this is harsh but your happiness comes first if you live your life thinking about other ppls happiness your gonna get very stressed =\
I had to do this. It really sucks but it has to be done. Tell him int he nicest way possible. Think about what's best for you. If you stay in this relationship and you don't love him like he loves you, then it's going to be horrible for both of you. You're probably going to feel pretty bad because he sounds like he's going to fall hard but you have to finish this. Good luck! =-)
The truth is, you aren't stuck in a rut. You've created the paradigm that you are. A real relationship is one where both people wake up everyday and want to be there. If one day you wake up and decide this is not the place for you, you are doing yourself and your partner a huge disfavor by staying in it longer than need be.

Put yourself in his place for just a moment. How much more heartbroken would you be if you discovered your partner wasn't in love with you like you were him and he didn't saying anything for a long time? You may not be in love with him, but you do love him. So do both of you a favor and show your love to him by sharing what's really in your heart. Life isn't always full of smiles. The small heartaches are far better than the bigger ones: delaying this for too long.
Just tell him how you feel, and if he gets broken just tell him that you will be there as a good friend for him.
Best way as far as I can tell is ';quick and fast';. Don't drag it out, don't try to make him miserable so he'll break up with you first. Just sit him down and tell him you're unhappy, and you think the relationship is over. It's going to hurt, he's going to be upset, but trying to stick with a relationship when you're not happy is just going to make you both miserable.

Good luck!

Why would you break up with your boyfriend if he is the sweetest, most caring, and understanding guy out ther?

okay, so i have been having this issue recently and that was whether to break up with my boyfriend of almost 9 months (he is also in Maryland while i am in north Carolina for college and were both 18 and i am a freshman in college). He is just the best! He is caring, lovable and when it comes to sex or anything sexual he is vary considerate (he used a condom with spermicide, and wears it when were taking showers and baths together). We both lost our virginity to each other on our 6th month anniversary and when we thought i was pregnant he was already planning on getting a second job and planning how we will tell our parents and just being supportive. he pays for everything and when i say i can pay for myself he goes no n gets to the register before me lol. he even pays 200 bucks or so when he visits monthly for the hotel and food in NC.

I don't know what to do! i really do love him but i feel that i am giving up too much for him. because i am in college to follow my dream to work in a global setting. i want to travel, i want to work in an embassy, but i want to be with him too and he has came to me with his feelings saying he doesn't want to merry someone who isn't around or he can't keep quitting his job to come with me to a new country because if i work for the department of state they will be having me go to diff countries for 3 or so years each. and he knows that there is a high divorce rate in that n he doesn't want that to happen to us.

So i gave up my major and that was international studies, so now i am at a lost of what to do with my life and scared that in the end this will be all for nothing and i will be just a waste of my parents time and money. I feel so trapped now more than ever.

Am i being to irrational? paranoid? what do you guys think i should do?Why would you break up with your boyfriend if he is the sweetest, most caring, and understanding guy out ther?
its great that ure thinking about ur bf and all but we are talking about ur future and all..dont give up ur dreams..if thats what u want to do ..20-30 years down the road u might regret giving up ur passion..he should understand what u want to do when u grow up and u should support uWhy would you break up with your boyfriend if he is the sweetest, most caring, and understanding guy out ther?
Woah TMI lol. Just do it because if there is nothing wrong with the relationship and he is a great bf and you still have these thoughts then there is a big problem. You guys are still 18 so give it time, you still have 2 or so more years to make your decision unless you want to cut the rope now.
Wow that's a tough situation.

The only thing I can think of is would you rather have a loving husband(I think any girl would kill for a guy like that)? Or are you that passionate of that career?

Ask yourself that, and goodluck.
Same situation with me and my girlfriend... But you're a good 3-4 years ahead of us =S

In our case, my girlfriend is longing to travel, but I'm the kind of person who'd rather stay in one place. She's willing to stay home with me if I really wanted her to, and if she did that I'd do my very best to earn enough money to take an occasional vacation to a foreign country with her.

On the flip-side, I'm also willing to quit jobs and travel with her if she ends up getting such a job. She's probably be making more than me, but the degree I'm planning on going into (Computer Science) is very versatile and can be useful pretty much anywhere, so I think I'm good.

Now, if I were you I would have continued in the major... You don't HAVE to get the job, and he may be fine supporting both of you, and many jobs require ANY degree (doesn't matter which field) for a decent pay if you feel like working. You want to be able to support yourself if he happens to die or something. However, I definitely would NOT leave him, ESPECIALLY since you've ALREADY given so much up ^_^
Wow. You got a really nice guy. Personally, I'd say he's a keeper. If you already gave up your major, is that not a good step towards being with him? Life will figure itself out. If you really love him, stay with him. He's obviously working really hard to make this work between you two. If you choose a different career path that makes it so you can stay closer to him, you have made your efforts and sacrifices worthwhile, if you choose to continue in the career path you wanted originally, all you'll have is that if it really is a decision between that and him.
i believe that a persons first loyalty should be to themselves not out of any selfish desire or ambition but in the spirit of fairness. because true happiness comes from within giving up your dreams for a relationship isn't fair to you or who you're with. if you cant be happy with your own life and your own career then i am not sure how you'll be able to expect to uphold your end of a fulfilling relationship. I would say its a personal decision probably would be helpful to decide if there is anything else you would be happy doing with your life that makes it possible for you two to stay together and if so is it worth it to you in the long term.

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What would you do if your parents made you break up with your boyfriend of 2 years?

I've been dating this sweet guy since the very first day of high school.

He is now leaving for college and I am very very upset.

We did everything together (not everything but you know what I mean) and he's always been there for me. I haven't had a day of high school without him. This year was a rough year for him (death in the family) which triggered some emotional disorders. It resulted in brash behavior and in a spur of the moment thing, we broke up. We soon got back together, realizing it was just a fight that got out of hand. I had to put up a huge argument with my parents before they allowed me to date again. They dislike my boyfriend because he got into a fight over a misunderstanding and was out of work due to an injury for 4 weeks. This was the only incident like that with him. He's kind and compassionate, it was a misunderstanding. My parents said I would have to break up with him after the end of the school year because he's going to college and they never expected us to date this long. As a couple, we discussed what my parents had told me. We broke up, respecting their wishes. But we still want to date. I'm 17, he's 18. I'm a grade A student, having a boyfriend has not effected my attitude or grades. I don't understand why we aren't allowed to date. How can I get my parents to understand how much I care about my boyfriend? I come from a very strict family, they won't even let me be his friend anymore. I really need help. Please, serious answers only.What would you do if your parents made you break up with your boyfriend of 2 years?
It sounds like your parents maybe seeing something your not, and honestly I think their just being cautious about your feelings. They do not want to see you heartbroken in the long run. But if your set on being with him you just have to telll them that it is your feelings in the way and not theirs and that this is what makes you happy, and tell them if it does end up as their thinking it will you will not make them pick up the pieces. But from the story I think your parents are in the right here. He's off to college and your not so he is gonna want to explore and keep his options open. If he was as into you as you are him he would of put up a fight about the whole breakup and it sounds like he took the easy way out which benefits him.What would you do if your parents made you break up with your boyfriend of 2 years?
if u wana b wid him den b wid him even if der not happy bout it dey cant stop u /
your parents cannot tell you who you can date. your almost 18 years old and if this is who you choose to be with then be with him. you just need to tell them that you truely care about him and your not just going to throw away your relationship with him because they say so. its not their choice. they may be able to stop you from seeing him but they can never stop you from being with him. its your life stand up to them if he's that important to you.
That's BS.. don't let them stop you from making the biggest mistake of your life. You're almost an adult and telling you who to date and not? Don't listen to them, cause it sounds like they don't want to see you happy. Keep dating him. They can't force you. Once you're 18, move in with him? =p
how immature.

go to college, and u gonna become C student after u break up?

just stick to the reality.

How do you break-up with your boyfriend without hurting him?

i really like my boyfriend, and the only thing that makes me know that i need to breakup with him is that i like another guy a little bit more. i really really care about my boyfriend, and my biggest fear would be to hurt him and lose his friendship. i know for a fact that the other guy likes me, so its not a question of (if) i'll break up with my bf, its (when). does anyone know what to do? i've been about to do it a few times, but every time i'm about to i freeze up. i just don't want to hurt him! sometimes i think one of the best and worst things about me is that i'm extremely passionate.

thankss!

annie %26lt;3How do you break-up with your boyfriend without hurting him?
Unfortunately, there is no easy way to do this, but you have to go to his place and do it in person right away. He probably will get hurt, but there is nothing you can do to avoid it. the longer you drag this on, the worse it will be for both of you. eventually he will be able to move on, but give hime time. good luckHow do you break-up with your boyfriend without hurting him?
Well, don't draw it out. Breaking up will always have that pain and you can't really remove it.

Tell him. You have to be honest with him and with yourself.

Just say, I want to break up. It's hard, it's awkward and it will be difficult, but if you want to move on, you have to let him move on too by breaking up.

Good luck.
The grass is not always greener on the other side. i broke up with this girl because i thought i liked another girl more. then after a few months with the other girl. i really missed the first girl. i even think of her sometimes, i always think of ';what would things be like if....'; i am married now and i am pretty much over that girl. i am friends with her but i will never forget her. keep this in mind.
If he likes you, he is going to get hurt. If he's not a wuss, he'll get over it. If he is a wuss, you probably don't want him anyway.

Grow some balls and do the deed. Don't worry about hurting his feelings... rejection sucks, but it would suck more for him to find out that you've been contemplating this for six months and he had no idea.

Also, don't bone guy number two until you've cut things off with guy number one. That's just dirty.

Hope that helps!

Would you break up with your boyfriend or girlfriend because you didn't like their mother?

My boyfriend's mom obviously doesn't like me, and she isn't willing to cut the umbilical cord with her son. I have been dating my boyfriend 2+ years, and since we are over at his parents house several times a week, I have had ample time to get to know her, and vise versa. She doesn't cook healthy foods nor does she walk her 100 pound dog, she doesn't manage her finances right (for ex spending insurance money to fix the roof of the house on new furniture), she doesn't recycle just because she doesn't have the bins - she is not a good example for him. Don't get me wrong, she raised him with manners and taught him to be kind to women, but a healthy lifestyle, responsible financing, and social responsibility are important to me. He sides with his mother on issues, and doesn't mind being attached to the umbilical cord. I have tried to tell him how I feel, but he gets defensive and won't compromise. I know he will always choose his mother over me, and she will be there until the day she dies. Knowing this.... his mom could be a dealbreaker for me. Would you break up (or have you ever) with someone because of their mother?

See my other question as a reference for how she treats me (keep in mind my boyfriend did nothing to defend me):

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;

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Would you break up with your boyfriend or girlfriend because you didn't like their mother?
Try talking to him again, but be very, very sensitive! A child's connection with their mother is strong. Tell him that you feel hurt by the way his mother treats you, and you feel hurt that he doesn't defend you.

Of course there will be times when he chooses his mother over you. She is, after all, the woman who gave birth to him. But if he really loves you, he should defend you and not let anyone hurt you.

If I were you, I would tell him how I feel, and then tell him that if he refuses to stick up for me, I'll break up with him. If his mom is that attached, she can have him.

Would you break up with your boyfriend or girlfriend because you didn't like their mother?
thats too much to read..but no I wouldnt
I was 14 and my boyfriend was16, his mother HATED ME!!!!!

I mean HATED!!!

After time, she came to accept me, and now I'm 35, that same boyfriend is 37, and we've been married for 17 years.

She and I have gotten very close, in fact, I'm closer to her now than I am my own mother.

Hang in there, maybe things will start looking up :)
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well, if you really mean a lot to him than he will not take sides and take good qualities from you and his mother. she needs to understand that kids grow up and life does go on...so unless its at a point where you absolutely can not stand the situations, than talk to him and let him know how you feel..good luck!
I would leave him considering the situation will not change if he isn't willing to do anything. He doesn't have to side with you when you and his mother disagrees; however, he has a responsibility to respect you and your opinion. If you start to pull away from him, he might detach himself from his mother, but if he doesn't, then that shows you how he feels about you and the relationship.
well it depends how much u like him...but does it even matter that his mom even likes u.. its not like u have to see her or hang out with her.. just ignore her.
If he decides to side with her, then its not his mom you have issues with.

Hes a big boy and makes his own decisions.

Maybe its time you found someone you are more compatible with, or who has the same personal standards as you.
dump that mama's boy
there is some issues and it's not a one way street. what does her finances have to do with anything? that's none of your business and your attempt to get others to side with you.you don't like her then stay away from her you are causing these problems with mother and child trying to force him to pick you over his own mother. your sick in the head and you need to hit the bricks. i would break up with you if you disrespect my mother and that is what you are doing. if you don't like her just stay away. you are turning this into some sick competition between you and his mother and you want to win, by pointing out her negatives to him. this is his mother!!!! get gone and make it quick you whack job
YES!! I would and I have before. If you marry someone, you are marrying their family as well, and if you can't stand them, you're setting yourself up for a terrible marriage. I tend to find that the parents judge me based upon what I look like and write me off as a bad person without even trying to get to know me, and if the girl I'm with seems to be affected by their judgement of me, that's a very bad sign.

You are extremely smart to realise what you may be getting into here -- most people don't, and live to regret it (as evidenced by other answers).

How do you break up with your boyfriend?

Now i know this seems like a very childish question but please give me the benefit of the doubt. I dont like breaking up with people but right now my scheduale is so hectic i dont see my boyfriend at all. i see him maybe for 4 minutes a day if even. And outside of school im in highschool but outside of school we dont talk at all. Im in musical and it counsums my life during the weekdays and on the weekends i have house work to do and im to tired to go anywhere. So i was going to break up with my boyfriend while musical was going on but i dont know what to tell him or what to say to him. Any suggestions?How do you break up with your boyfriend?
1) dont shave your legs.

2)sleep with his best friend.

3)tell him your prego.How do you break up with your boyfriend?
Just explain how you dont get to spend much time with him and you thought you could handle but now you realize now you cant handle it at all. Tell him you need someone who is going to be around all the time and not jus when its convenient for you and him both. maybe he'll take it well
tell him that you love him but you just don't ahve the time for a relationship right now. i think that's perfect for this situation!
tell him what you just wrote. if that's how you feel and if that's how your relationship is and feel like it;s not going anywhere then just end it

Would you break up with your boyfriend because you didn't like his mom?

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How to break up with your boyfriend?

And I might add, gently and without feeling guilty? Here's the story shortened as much as I can (I am changing names just so you know):

My friend Maria got with her boyfriend Dylan in late January or early February. At the time, they were both a bit heartbroken and sad, so they instantly got along and soon, they became a couple, and let me tell you, they're adorable! Dylan is a year older than Maria. Problem is, Dylan is much more into Maria than she is into him, and he says I love you all the time, when Maria is ready, and he tells her all the time that he made his life so much better and he doesn't know what he'd do without her, now Maria wants to break up because she feels too controlled, and that's what he's doing to her! He has to be with her all the time and whatnot. What can you suggest for her? How can she break up with him without feeling TOO guilty?

Thanks in advance to the people who actually help.How to break up with your boyfriend?
best thing to do is

tell the truth, be honest what you really feel

it may or may not result to break up

you will not be guilt because you're telling the truth

talk her to him personally

mine please?

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They need to talk. She needs to be honest with him. It might hurt, but theres nothing to do about it. Or, the best I can advice you is to tell 'Maria' that she needs to tell him that he's being controlative. Maybe she just needs to tell him, and once she does, he might change and give her more space and time for her needs. If that doesnt work out well...then yeah she needs to break up with him. She needs to be honest with him though. But she needs to do it as...... nicely as possible so she wont hurt him or herself that much.

Tell her good luck from me if you can.
The best route would be to ask a parent or teacher for help.

Part of an abusive relationship is control %26amp; his goal mostlikely is to keep her feeling guilty if he can.

How To Break Up with Your BOYFRIEND?

Me and my boyfriend have been together a year. Take note i am ONLY 14. But he lies to me and i find out the truth about a month later. He makes promises to me and breaks them. He hates me talking about other boys or glancing at them. WE ARGUE all the time!!

and im fed up of it.. he also is extremely sensitive and gets angry quickly. I guess the reason i dont want to break up with him is because HE HAS been lovely to me and im scared..

Im terrified of being hurt bcause i KNOW it will tak ages for me to get over him..

What shall i do?How To Break Up with Your BOYFRIEND?
Him lying to you is a big red flag. Just let him go, sweetie. There will be better guys out there.How To Break Up with Your BOYFRIEND?
A year is quite a long time to be with someone especially wen u r so young. You have realised there is a problem. Your boyfriend has been lying to you and the trust has gone frpm this relationship. You say he gets angry quickly which suggests you might be a little intimidated by him too. You have a deifficult decision. You can either stay with him and try to build up trust. The best way to do this is by talking however you say that you argue all the time. The other option is to break up. Feeling upset is awful and it might take you a while to get over him...but you will get over him - if thats what you choose to do. :-)
It will hurt and luckily you realise that now.

Unfortunately you will have to be blunt with him and tell him how you feel and why you feel like this.

I would tell him and state that you are willing to give him one more chance or you are over.

I am sorry to see you put in this position as i have been there and i know how painful this is going to be.

I am the same age as you to.

If you ever need to chat then please feel free to email me. I will chat to anyone about anything if they need help.

pottylaura1993@yahoo.co.uk

Best Wishes.

Lossa

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im 14 to and the ones above have clearly never been in a situation like this, this young. first tell him you are thinking of breaking up wit him then see his reaction and give him the 3 day treatment. then if you are going to go in for the plunge tell him you just want to be friends and say it to his face dont get any of your friends or msn or phone xx
Just finish it, you're 14, it's not like he is the one and only. Come on, you can be friends, ok, by why would you go out with a liar? Just have more respect for yourself than for him and it will be so much easier to get over him.
Well first tell him the way he feels on your relationship if he says fine then you tell him that you don't find it OK and he has to change or it will be over! That might spook him a little if not then just say ';it's not working and well.............it's over!!!';
I'm sorry it,s not working out for you two! Just do it say ';insert name her, I'm really sorry but your lying to me is not cool! I think we should just be friends.'; Sound so corny i know. Also NEVER break up over email or text! BIG MISTAKE!
well, if u wanna brake up with him do it in a NICE way.

just tell him its not working out.

im 14 too and i hate boys like that.

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Im confused....
why you ask a very very silly question......

just say your ugly i dont want to go out with you no more.
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get over it yur onli 14
My gf just dumped me......
breaking up is a part of life. It sounds as if he doesn't trust you and if your 14 its not as if your going to do anything big with guys if you know what i mean. If he really does love you then he will want you to be happy all the time and if he breaks promises to you then its not making you happy. He's not a good guy. honestly, i'm surprised you lasted a year. Get rid of him and get straight back out there. There is a guy out there who will appreciate you and give you the decentcy and respect you deserve. Sorry if i sound a bit harsh but its the truth in my opinion. Gud luk.
i dont think he sounds worth ur tears or pain.

my friend is having a similiar situation with a boyfriend who is refusing to be dumped and has become sincerely angry, threatening and verbally aggressive to her.

i asked for her opinion and, well, shes a sensitive one (!) so all i got was:

';i have nothing to suggest. only that, there's really no easy to do it. she will hurt for a few days/weeks, but if she's fed up, she'll have to suck it up';

but ignore that. if hes making u feel bad than id just dump him, sure you will hurt, and so will he.

but if hes making u feel like that then hes not worth it.

to be fair you are young, its not as if u will never find love again.

you'll get over it in time and move on.

try to stay friends. work things out and get to know one another again...

and maybe in time you'll just click again, or maybe you will both move on, who knows.

all i know is that whatever u choose u will make it. its not the end of the world.

and I (we) wish u the best of luck with watever u choose.

:)

How to break up with your boyfriend who says he loves me?

ok so his name is tom. i dont really like him anymore... but he says he loves me. i think he is taking it to fast. we have been going out for about a month, and he wants to kiss me. i really want to know how i should break up with him. im 14 and i dont really want to kiss him and i tried telling him but he wont listen.my best friend broke up with her boyfriend 2 days ago and they are having a lotta drama. so i dont want to look like a copy catter so what do i do?? answer by 8:00 am tomorrow morning.( 10-16-09)How to break up with your boyfriend who says he loves me?
Well, it doesn't matter what other people are doing. If you don't want to kiss him he should respect that. if he doesn't then he doesn't need to be with you.And you certainly shouldn't be going out with someone if you don't want to be going out with them. If he really does ';love you'; he will respect you and give you your space.

How to break up with your boyfriend and make him think it's his fault?

i'm dating someone and i realize that they are not the greatest person, and i'm still madly in love with my ex boyfriend. i know now that it was wrong to get into a relationship so soon after breaking up but i was confused and i made stupid choices. I now need to find a certain way to break up with him without me being the bad person, mainly because I don't wanna hurt him, and because I don't wanna lose friends. HELP!How to break up with your boyfriend and make him think it's his fault?
Just be a crap girlfriend. Guys do it all the time to get girls to break up with them. Don't make time for him, be a bad listener, be lazy, anything you know he doesn't like. Unless he's blindly in love with you, he'll end it.How to break up with your boyfriend and make him think it's his fault?
that's a tough one, but the truth shall set you free. Tell him that you're still having feelings for your ex and that it isn't fair to him to keep at your relationship when your hearts not in it. And that the more time you spend with each other the more differences you notice and that you rushed into a relationship that has lost it's stability. Better to end it now as friends rather than it comes crashing down as enemies.

Would you break up with your boyfriend for not spending anything on you?

So i've been going out with my boyfriend for 2 weeks now. (he's 16, i'm 14 so were still in school) This last weekend he told me he's gonna take me out to a movie, but his dad ended up not getting paid so we went to the mall instead, Then the next day i was texting him and i asked whats up, he tells me he's at the movies.. which really piss3d me off. I asked how he got the money and he said he sold his psp for $80 , so i started thinking well he'll probably spend some of it on me eventually. Then later that day he said he's getting his ears gaged (so thats more of the money), and then he baught new converse. Then the next day i asked him on texting if theres any money left over? he tells me nope. So then my friend texted him on my phone saying he's a bad boyfriend and that he should be spending money.. later he thaught that i was trying to break up with him.. and i wasnt.. but should i have? he's a really nice guy, and i know that his family is haveing some $ problems.. but still..Would you break up with your boyfriend for not spending anything on you?
dependsWould you break up with your boyfriend for not spending anything on you?
Idiot. Not him - you.
I would break up if he didn't spend any T I M E on me.
no i think that would be stupid common give himsome slack if he doesnt have that much $ that doesnt mean he hast to spend it on you he needs to treat himself too and you guys have only been going out for 2 weeks but i do agree that that was reALLY RUDE OF HIM BUT IDK ITS HIS CHOICE WHAT HE WANTS TO DO WITH HIS $
i guess you should notr breakup...

but its realy irritating .. this kind of situation .. what you can do is just do your slef what ever you do.. if this won't last for so many days.. then you ahve to say bye bye!!
its not your boyfriends job to spend anything on you, pay for yourself to go to the movies idiot. be independant and rely on yourself and not a boyfriend to take care of you. thats never left anyone anywhere.
seriously? it is a tad bad how he told you that he was gonna take you to the movies then go and not take you but it is his money and uve only been dating 2 weeks, you cant expect him to spend money on him. but go ahead. break up with him
well....a relationship shouldn't be about money. bottom line is being loyal and being there for each other. in my opinion, both parties should earn their own money and not let money get in the way of things.
This is hard to deal with. If this is the first time that it happened then maybe it's nothing big. You guys have been going out for 2 weeks and have been spending time with each other, maybe just not money. If you are in the relationship because you like him, want to spend time with him, get to know him and all of that stuff, then who cares if he spends money on you or not. If it was like your birthday or an anniversary and he didn't get you something then it would be a bigger issue.

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What is the best way to break up with your current boyfriend?

look, i have been going with this guy for around 1 month and 2 days.. and yet, i can't feel any love for him.. it just became us but i don't love him... am i a playgirL?

how do i break up with him?What is the best way to break up with your current boyfriend?
Since you have only been together just a matter of a few weeks...just tell him that you have decided that you want to go it on your own and that you aren't as ready for a one on one relationship like you thought you were. Tell him that he is incredibly nice..but you just aren't into having a steady at this time. He should be able to understand that, right? Good luck.What is the best way to break up with your current boyfriend?
Tel him maybe would be the first option.
Just need to tell him you know I really like you as a friend but the feelings are not there .
First off you only been dating for one month so it should be easy to break it off!!! be honest and tell him straight out how u feel... the sooner the better.! good luck. t
Ah you're not a Playgirl unless you make youreself a Playgirl...the fact is that just like you can't control who you fall in love with; you can't control who you DON'T fall in love with. Just don't play him, be honest with him. It might upset him, but as a guy who's been lied to and who's had women who were honorable enough to tell me the truth, I say please tell him the truth...as gently as possible.

How to break up with your boyfriend?

So me and my boyfriend have been going out for four months now. At first he was pretty much the definition of a goodboyfriend and I fell in love with him but now things are different. Things have gradually taken a turn for the worst. First we started fighting all the time over every little thing then he started ignoring me sometimes whenever he wanted then now we never even talk. We text mostly but now he only talks to me if I initiate the conversation and my responses are short one word answers. So I'm pretty much sick of being treated like crap and I want to break up. I already tried to fix things but he showed no interest. So what I'm basically asking is how to break up with him. And would it be horrible if I said it through text because he never wants to do stuff with me so we never hang out and I don't want him to come over just so I can break up with him.How to break up with your boyfriend?
You can text him and say that you guys need to talk.

He can easily guess what you wanna talk about.

Let him decide breaking up either with or without seeing each other.

Or he may not wanna break up at all...then you really need to talk in person.How to break up with your boyfriend?
Erm, you do the obvious thing. You ring him and say that you aren't happy and want to break up.

He's showing the vital signs of not actually caring. Ignoring you, arguing, not talking, only texting.

You've missed out lots of bits in your story, but it sounds like he's shallow and obviously can't hold down a proper relationship.

Why are you fighting against yourself being horrible? Since he is ignoring you, breaking up with him is no more horrible than what he is doing to you. Stick up for yourself a little bit. You don't need it, and there are plenty of nicer guys out there.
thru text it will be clean and simple and yet he might not get hurt cause he brought this on himself

How do you break up with your boyfriend of 3 years when hes extrememly attached and you have a dog together?

My boyfriend and I have been dating almost 3 years. We have a dog together and are high school sweethearts. I'm close to his family and they are close to me and our dog. I broke up with him about 1 1/2 ago and we got back together a week later. I don't want to see him upset. He cried last time, got depressed, and wouldn't eat. He never gave up on me. He's an amazing guy, the feelings just aren't there anymore. I love him, but I don't think we are in love anymore. I don't know how to break up with him without hurting him a ton. After I do break up with him i'll still take the dog over to his house to spend time with his family because they've grown extremely attached. I know any reason I try to break up with him with he will respond with ';we can work at it.'; I want to experience different things and people.. but i don't want to tell him that because that would tear him apart. Any advice would be awesome. Thanks!How do you break up with your boyfriend of 3 years when hes extrememly attached and you have a dog together?
Get to know them better. This is not a task only to be accomplished through dating. The more you get to know him or her, the more you can tell if you like them as a friend or something else. Just talk and do fun activities with the person.

Stop and consider why you like the person. There are many physically attractive and smart people out there. But if you see something beyond that really catches your attention, you've marked this person as unique and probably like them. Why else would they stand out from so many?

Consider how many times you think about the person. If you find yourself thinking about this person several times a day, and they are happy thoughts that possibly make your heart beat faster, then you probably like them.

Think how often you laugh at their jokes etc. When you like someone, you will find yourself laughing at things even if they aren't that funny. This is a natural attempt to make them feel appreciated.

If the one conversation between you and the person is stuck in you head and you cant stop telling people about it. this means it was important to you, and you probably like the person.

Consider how much you try to be near them. If you've planned your walking speed to catch a glimpse of them as many times of the day as possible, there is a good reason for that.

Think about how you feel if you touch him or her, by accident or on purpose. If you're still thinking about brushing shoulders several hours ago in school, then that is a special thought and you probably like them.

If you feel you're ready for a relationship, and are confident enough for a positive response, then just go ahead and ask them out. If you're unsure of their feelings for you, there are several wikihows on how to tell if someone likes you.How do you break up with your boyfriend of 3 years when hes extrememly attached and you have a dog together?
Listen to some Vivian Green, Mary J. Blige and always honor, respect and love yourself first.
I was in a situation VERY similar to yours. We had been together on and off for about 3 years,and if you wrote our personalities down on paper...it would seem like a perfect match. But..the feelings, that spark just wasn't there for me.

Our families loved each other, his family loved me, mine loved him...and I felt so guilty for feeling how i did. Like...what was wrong with me? I should be in love with this guy.

Anyway, long story short..I had to break it off for good. I couldn't handle it anymore, and realistically it's not fair to either of you to in a relationship where both hearts aren't entirely into it. .

My ex was the same way (';we can work it out.'; ';I'll wait for you.';) And honestly, I think it's just something he needs to deal with on his own, as harsh as that may sound. Break things off and make a clean cut, don't talk to him for a while and tell him you really think you both need some time without each other. It's the only way for reality to sink in, and even then he might not completely give up.

Do what's right for you, based on what you feel. And don't give in to him because you feel bad to leave. Good luck
give him the dog %26amp; move on!!!

Has anyone ever been forced to break up with your boyfriend/girlfriend?

My older brother caught me and my boyfriend making out, and i basically lost all the trust from my family. I feel horrible about what happened, and i regret doing something so stupid.. doing something so inappropriate under the roof of my own family.

They told me to end things with him or else they don't want me in the house anymore.. i knew i had to. It hurt so much to do that.. i felt so forced and i couldn't even convince them to give us a second chance.

I called him yesterday and told him i couldn't continue the relationship, he didn't even try to convince me or say anything but ';ok.'; Do i just move on? I want to talk this over with my bf, but i'm not allowed to speak to him or see him yet. My mom told me that it's no big deal to break it off with him since we've only been together for 3 months and we're both only 17, but somehow i find it so hard to let go..

Has anyone else been in the same situation? What did you do about it and how did you deal with your family?Has anyone ever been forced to break up with your boyfriend/girlfriend?
First of all, was it one of those kisses that just make you melt around the butterflys that immediately started fluttering in your stomache the second your lips touched his? Do you think it was the most wonderful kiss in the world and always will be because it makes you feel soooo in love everytime you do kiss? (Like a 1st kiss) If both of you felt it, your brother, mom, and pops will get over it in time.; But you have to show them you learned how disrepectful you both were and eventually when you are still together but not inappropriate (in public) they'll come around. You may have to fight others but only true love is worth fighting for anyway right? Do it right. With class, respect, %26amp; appearances.

Unfortunately, it doesn't sound like it's that. If dude just says okay to stop seeing each other just like that.....move on. I know it hurts, and it's really hard. My parents %26amp; family were always right about my BF's. I hated them for that. Then. Now, I wish to God I would have listened. Now my own daughter says, ';MOM. You're just settin' yourself up again!';

Twice she said that to me. I hated her for jinxing my newfound love and relationship!

Now.........I respect her judgement of character so much more than my own that if I ';think'; I'm in love again, I run it past her. I'll be darned if 2 times after she said that / or be careful what you're getting into; check it out first mommy, I had so many 'red flags' from the introduction on. Right on the nailhead she had hit it.

Just remember, friends %26amp; lovers, come %26amp; go, but families are forever! Blood really is thicker than water and lives on until judgement day. If you are adopted, with no DNA relation with what is your ';family';, you need to know that anyone that raises, lives, laughs, crys, and yes, scolds you to the age you are now, IS your family and no matter what, even if they don't want to be.........they WILL always be a part of you no matter how big or small that part is. You will see this is true closer to your mid to late 20's. It's just that you are being TOLD. No-one likes to be TOLD to do anything. It really is because they love you, (your brother, how cool is that?). Stick with the family sweet 17 cuz I'd be willing to bet if the kiss was just ok, you won't even be thinking, missing, or running into this guy come x-mas. Bet I know where you will be x-mas day;. So do you.Has anyone ever been forced to break up with your boyfriend/girlfriend?
that exactly haoppened to me a few days ago but my bf is being threatened and she has blocked my number i duno i havta get over mine cause i noe i cant talk to him ever agen plus he lives 1hour drive if u cant c him or talk to him best to get over him its rly hard tho... hes just moving on to thats all u can do unless somehow u can sneak out at nite or somtin and c him......

How to break up with your boyfriend?

i am a girl, and i want to break up with my bf, but ive never done this before, and i told him i would love him forever, and now i dont, so how do i break up with him?How to break up with your boyfriend?
Be straight up with him.

Tell him your reasons why.

And say ';i'm sorry but its over';How to break up with your boyfriend?
tell him your pregnant and he's the daddy and he's gonna have to pay child support. i promise ya his *** will run.
just say you've grown apart, or you should see other people.
Be honest and tell him the truth
tell him that you smell like popcorn and peanuts
Speak from the heart,be gentle and respective.

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How to break up with your boyfriend?

my bff told me that she saw my boyfriend with another girl and that heart my fellings so im going to break up with him but the problum is hes been with me sence kindergarten what should i do!!!How to break up with your boyfriend?
Before you break up w/ him just ask him what he was doing..you never know who she was..or why he was with her. so just ask him and if it does turn out that he was cheating then just tell him you can be with someone that dosnt respect you anough not to cheat on you

-Why did you break up with your boyfriend/girlfriend??

I just wonder. Would you just share the reason for your breaking up? And was it YOU who wanted to end or him/her?

-How long were you guys together?

N my last question is,..how hard was it for you after,..how long did you take it really hard without him/her..on a scale 1-10? lol now you guys will be like..-what the hell? is she takin an interview or something? Im just cirious :)-Why did you break up with your boyfriend/girlfriend??
I caught her blowing my homie.-Why did you break up with your boyfriend/girlfriend??
I broke up with my fiance after just over two years as he cheated on me with a girl he worked with that i was friends with (GRR!). We had a child together who was 6mnths old at the time and i on a scale of 1-10 of how devastated i was it felt like 100000 at the time, i was really gutted :o( It did take me a very long time to get over maybe a year before i stopped getting really upset whenever i talked about it. But i dont think il ever be FULLY over it because although im totally over HIM now i think it really changed me as a person in a good way cuz i guess im stronger now but in a bad way cuz i was very trusting before and now im always sceptical when it comes to guys. Its krazy that one person can change your life like that!?! Good question! :o)
Because she - like every other female on the planet - was psychotic.
I had two previous relationship ex-GF's. The first one for 6 months. And I dumped her. She had an attitude. I got sick of it so I told her I was done. She tried coming back, crying. I didn't care. It wasn't hard on me. The second one I caught her with another guy doing drugs. Smoking pot. We went out for a few months. I got rid of her as well. I felt she was just using me for money.
He couldn't quit his ex-wife, and continued to nurture an inappropriate relationship with her, which was misleading to both her and me.
I can tell you why I broke up with my husband?He started drinking at 3am.And he drank all day,he smoked too many cigarettes,he was boring,he never wanted to go or do anything,most the time when I cooked dinner,he was too drunk to eat it,sex was boring and almost never,and yet ,he cheated on me.,he constantly lied about everything,he got loans that I never found out about untill later,never knew what the money was for,he wouldn't have much to do with his daughter,who I loved very much,shall I go on?
cause he cheated on me

he broke it up w/ me i didnt know he cheated on me yet

he just told me he didnt love me anymore

(i didnt know he cheated till like 2 months later)

on a scale i dunno i kept my mind off him but maybe a 7 didnt take too long because i found someone else who was awesome

we were only together for 4 mos and part of time he was in the airforce so he was actually gone for two of them
i date a guy for 1yr 4months nd some days and i broke up with him because he ignored me lied to me lew me off and osmetimes aint here from him for days at a time but mostly it was the lieing that got to me it wasnt hard afterwards cause i knew it was the right decsion but he got a gf and it killed me and a month after he got that gf i was completly over him were frends now and he still wants me back on a scale of 1-10 it was like a 7 on the heartbreak scale
He cheated on me after 1 1/2 years. I ended it, I won't be with a cheater. On a scale of 1-10, it was probably about a 7. I took it pretty hard because we had plans to be married and I really thought he was ';the one.';
I figured... there isn't actually any point in having a boyfriend/girlfriend. It only causes more stress. You see. First, you like somebody. Then, you marry him or her. All you get is children, and momentarily, divorce. So it's best if you stay as a single to enjoy your own life. For girls, pregnancy might tire you out, even kill you.
I broke up with a girlfriend of 4 months because she was obviously still hooked on her ex. We were good Friends before dating and remained friends after. I know this is not typical, but the break-up was actually pretty easy going.

The first love of my life left me after 3 years. I think it was because she was growing in a different direction than me. I was a bit older and wanted to start getting serious 9family, house, etc.) and she wanted to party. It was rough for about a year, but I finally convinced myself I was over her. We ended up getting back together and breaking up a few more times, but each time got easier...

I hope this info satisfies your curiosity!
he was way too controlling and bossy. he was rude to my family. and once he took me out to eat, then in the car he thought he was gunna get lucky and started making out with me and then reaches up my shirt........all goes down hill from there.
I went out the my last boyfriend for about nine months. We had a rocky relationship because I am a commitment-phobe and he tended to want to cling tighter, rather than realize I needed space. I ended it because I felt stifled and trapped. I was going through a bad time and needed to get away for a while. It was really hard for me after, even though I was so terrified of the whole commitment thing in the first place. I would say it was a nine. It did not help that he moved halfway across the country shortly after we broke up too. That was really hurtful. But, these things make one stronger. And now I am doing well.
nope... i ended it

about a month

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o ad wayy to clingy and eat my friend
She thought I was an ATM. I wanted to end it because I knew I was being taken advantage of and really didn't want to be out of dough. We weren't together for too long, but she sure liked to have me buy stuff for her. After: I don't have to lock my wallet so I'm happy, so a 1.

How to break up with your boyfriend?

my boyfriend makes everything so awkward. like he asks when will we kiss and he asks for one when were about to seperate. UGH and hes like REALLY REALLY liking me or thinks he loves me. but im starting to lose feeligns for him... when we were just friends, it seemed funner and better.... but since were together... its awkward kind of..... what are good lines to tell him?How to break up with your boyfriend?
Just tell him you're not into him anymore, and think it would be best if you could just go back to being friends.

Just make sure to give him some time as ';not friends'; so he can get over you.How to break up with your boyfriend?
tell him your nine and stfu
Tell him you think that your moving to fast. And that you just wanna chill for a while and go back to being friends because you liked things more the way they were and maybe when the timings right we can maybe get together again but for now I think we would be better off just being friends again because you don't want a relationship to ruin the friendship that you had because thats too important to you
ignore him see if he gets the point... or tell him ur seen me
There's not a lot you can say besides telling him you want to go back to just being friends and that you'd rather have him as a friend then as nothing at all.

One of the first thing's he's gonna say if he accepts this is ';why?'; so you should do him the favour of explaining that clingyness, and needyness is NOT attractive and that's what has driven you away from him.
There aren't really any specific lines to make this any easier try not to beat around the bush guys hate that they rather have it striaght forward and no i just want to be friends stuff
There is either 2 choice you will do and it dephens on you...

1) If you are brave, just use your own mouth and tell him the truth on what you feel about him... and say what is the things you don't like that he does etc... Tell him...!

2) If you are not brave. what ever he give, or invite you etc, just reject it... Simple and really works

How do you break up with your boyfriend nicely?

I really like him but i dont want to go out with him.

I mean we re only going out like for 3 weeks and he

already told me he loves me.

I need help please let me know how

to tell him i just want to be friends.

Thanks!How do you break up with your boyfriend nicely?
I think it's best to tell him straight out.

Tell him you don't want to get serious right away, but also say that you want to get to know him better (only if you do). The guy should appreciate it more when he knows you're not playing with his feelings.

Best of luck. :)How do you break up with your boyfriend nicely?
well i think the best thing u should do is tell him that u just wanna be friend with him. Honesty is the best policy .This quote is best for every situation.Good luck
Tell him you need to take a shyt and go to the washroom and never come back ?
tell him that you just want to be friends and also say something like i think this is not goingg to work out or we should break up and have a chance to date other people. or you can start off by saying i am not trying to be rude or you can end it by i don't hate you it is just that i think it is not goin to work out. good luck breaking up with your boyfriend. it was hard when i had to so might be hard when you are going to break up with him. oh when you say it make sure he understand so he will not get sad. oh good luck again!

How do you break up with your boyfriend?

i've been with him for 6 months. i've had my fun, but we are in two different schools and like it's time to end it. right now, everything is building on top of me, and it's nearly suffocating me. everytime i talk to him, he says something that makes me forget that i want to break up with him, then when i have to go, it hits me. . . help, please?How do you break up with your boyfriend?
When you meet him, keep saying in your mind, remember to break up with him. keep saying it no matter what. If he's like, a really hot guy, (:D)

say that you think he's too good for you.

I guess.. Hope it helps%26lt;3How do you break up with your boyfriend?
Ask to talk to him in person. Tell him that its just time to end it. Two different schools are getting in the way, and you just don't feel the same about him anymore. Tell him he's sweet (you gotta cushion the fall here) but it's not like it used to be.
when you find out tell me
i had the same problem a few months ago.

its hard. my ex even played the ';I love you'; card...even though he didnt cause he cheated but w/e.

you just have to stand your ground and not back down.

good luck.

you can do it.

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How do you break up with your boyfriend?

I don't want to hurt him, but I still want to stay friends with him. I'm breaking up with him because it's just akward with us dating, and we were better as just friends.How do you break up with your boyfriend?
this is what you should say:but first go to a restaurant !

you,';theres something i need to tell you.'; him,';what?'; you,';well..i want to be your friend and anything,but i dont think we should be..you know..what we are right now..(act sad)

him,';why?'; you,';it just doesnt seem the same like it used to,things just feel..awkward..bieng with you.but i still want to be your friend,im sorry';

him,';how was it awkward?'; you,';things just werent the same with you and me.';

him,';is there someone else?';

you,';NO NO!..i just want to be friends with you..i really am sorry!';

(ask for the check and then leave after you pay it)(dont let him get a chance to talk when you leave)How do you break up with your boyfriend?
If he still has feelings for you, forget about being friends. Just tell him straight out that you lost feelings for him. GL
Just say ';i think we should just be friends its a little akward with us dating i really love being our friend so can we just be friends';?
eat some chinese food. just kidding. you should just say i just want to be friends because that is all i see us as. i want to be your friend still but dont feel that comfortable dating
well.......whatever u do...don't do it over the phone do it in person and just be honest about how u feel
Just be honest, but start out with the good things about him first. Then get to the point. its always a little easier when you say something nice first. i also suggest doing it face to face. its more respectful that way.
There is no such thing as just friends, you'll just end up hurting him and then he will hurt you. You made a bad decision for dating him so now you suffer the consequences for going against your better judgement. You liked him as a friend....then you lied to him when you said you wanted to date him because he wanted to and you didn't. You lied, you pay.
here is what you do:

';Hello?';

';Hey!';

';Hey what's up?';

';Well, I don't want to be with you anymore. I want to break up.';

';Ohh.... *cries*';

';okay, bye.';
Say exactly the same to him: '; I dont want to hurt you, but i still want to stay friends with you. I am breaking up with you because its just akward with us dating, and we are better as just friends';.
let him down easy, start by letting him know that you appreciate his friendship, but the dating thing just working for you.

What is the best way to break up with your boyfriend?

Well i have a boyfriend and im getting over him so i want to break up with him but the last time i broke up with him he started to cry and i felt bad so i got back with him but now i really want to break up with him but i dont know how.What is the best way to break up with your boyfriend?
Well first of all break up with him face-to-face NEVER REPEAT NEVER break up with him like by text messaging or having someone else tell him for you, he will just feel worse! Even though its hard to tell him face-to-face! second, The best way is take him somewhere that you 2 can talk peacefully dont have anyone around you! He'll get crushed to be broken up in front of a friend or anyone at all! Try like a park or take a walk with him. Then if youre walking stop walking turn to him and say ';Baby'; or however you call him '; It has been great going out with youre funny, sweet, very nice but im sorry to say that i think we should see other people i know its hard for you cuz i know it is for me but i think its for the best im sorry!'; then walk away! i hope ive helped!What is the best way to break up with your boyfriend?
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Well, just say that you think that someone else deserve him more than you. =D

And tell him not to be such a baby
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Just call him and have him meet you in a secluded area and give him the low down. Just say its not working im sorry
Anonymously send him a sex tape of you with another guy. That way he will break up with you instead of you breaking up with him. Don't worry about how he feels though because it will just make it harder on you.
Just tell him it is over! There ain't no best way.
The sandwich method: say something good, state the bad, say another good thing...

Example: You are a really sweet guy, John. I don't feel like we are right for eachother and don't think it would be honest to you to keep leading you on (btw MEN LOVE THE WORD HONEST.. sounds ';logical'; i guess) Thanks for all the good times, but I know this is right.

And then... have a place to go! Don't hang around and drag it out (unless of course you've been dating for years and years which it sounds like this is more casual.)

The method helps to save the fragile ego:-)
just be honest and tell him the truth...don't be with him just because you feel sorry for him..thats even worst. because it would be like if you where playing with him... you will break some hearts in this life so get used to it...because the same will or may happend to you to....

be honest
Be direct, be sincere, be gone
1st wat z d reason 2 brake up wid him?c he truely love u alot dats y he cryed....n u may nt get d right one again....its not gud 2 hurt othrs dear.....i feel sorry 4 him....c life is vry short... 2day we may here n 2morw we may not....love is some thing which z given by god,love is passion.....do as ur heart says....but here my heart z saying he is d right oe 4u...n dnt hurt him....plzzzzz jenny......here comes a @--}--rose 4u frm sana....gud luck....
If you tried to break up with him and you didn檛 because he cried then you need to get a backbone and stand up for what you want. You can檛 just go through life and stay with people because they would be sad if you left. If he starts crying again just tell him that is the exact reason why you are leaving, because last time you tried to talk and say it wasn檛 working and he made you feel like you HAD to stay with him. Tell him that it will be better for the both of you if you leave because he obviously feels like he NEEDS you and you don檛 feel the same about him. You deserve someone who will make you happy and he deserves someone who is staying with him because they want to stay with him, not because he cried about it. Don檛 let him bring you down, if you want out, then get out and don檛 let his crying get to you!!!
well i know how you feel just sit down with him and tell him that you feel that you would make a better friend then a girl friend tell him you think that he is a sweet person but you rather be a friend see how he feels about being friends

How to break up with your boyfriend...?

I've been dating the same boy for a year, and now I'm pretty much bored stiff.

He's in love with me, and i just don't know what to do.

I'm scared to hurt him, but i can't take it anymore,

I'm not in love with him like i used to be,

and i just need to move on from this,

because its just stale now.

Please Help Me...How to break up with your boyfriend...?
Maybe you're bored with him because you have nothing in common. Find something in common or just take the easy way out and dump him.

How do you break up with your boyfriend?

I have a month before school starts for me, so it'll be a while until I can just randomly see him, pull him aside, and break up with him.

I don't want to break up with him over AIM or the phone. But neither of us live near each other, so I can't just walk over when I see he's home.

I don't know when he's home or isn't home, and I'd feel bad having him set aside time for a 'date' only to break up with him.

How do I do it?

There isn't anything seriously wrong with him. He's a good guy, I'm just... not really attracted to him in 'that' way. He was the first guy to ask me out and the second gay guy i met, and even though I didn't know him well I said 'yes' and decided to give it a shot. Unfortunately i discovered the attraction is not mutual.

So... how do I do it?How do you break up with your boyfriend?
It looks like you two are in a long-distance relationship. Because of that i would say to tell him the truth in an area you may meet commonly or the next time you see him.

Tell him that you guys can still be friends and if he's a really good guy then he'll understand, you two will still be great friends, and your lives won't ache as much from breaking up.How do you break up with your boyfriend?
Many guys go through similar situations when they first come out. I have been in the same situation when I was younger. So, you檙e not alone!

The advice I would give is, the sooner you communicate your feeling with him the sooner you can move on. I know setting up a time on a date seams cruel but it's more hurtful to be dishonest with your feeling for him. When you檙e not honest it gives mixed messages. He stands to get hurt; you only lose your pride for a moment. So, tell him soon!

I want you to turn this situation around. Think, how would you want someone to tell you? Then, do it in the same way.

I know breaking up isn't easy but it is a process of life we must all learn. With each experience we get better.

Good Luck!

I've been in a similar situation...you are not helping him or yourself by waiting to break up with him. Also, don't feel bad about wanting to end a relationship with someone you are not attracted...even if they are a nice person. I can't stress that enough. O.K. Give him a call and let him know that you aren't ready to be in a relationship. Be careful not to say the words ';right now'; at the end of that sentence. Don't give him any hope of the two of you getting together in the future unless that is what you want. If you wait to tell him, you are hurting him more...giving him another month to get excited about seeing you, only to have you dump him would be horrible. That would be harder on him than dumping him over the phone or the internet. So, tell him you are not ready to be in a relationship, do not explain anything else to him, and enjoy the rest of your summer knowing that you took care of this.

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How to break up with your boyfriend?

ok i just recently started going out with one of my closest guy friends and i thought i liked him but now ive fallen out of love, but his bday party is on saturday and i dont wanna break up with before saturday, and then need to go to the party and he will b like all mad at me. what should i do!?How to break up with your boyfriend?
I have the same problem. I am currently dating my best guy friend, but it just isn't working out, and I want to break up with him, but I don't know how.

Try to hang out with him before his party. Act emotionless when you hang out with him, that way he gets the hint that something is wrong. Tell him straight up that you love him as your friend, but not as your boyfriend.

He's going to be hurt, no doubt, but if you don't want to date him, don't. If I were you, I wouldn't go to his party ((at least if you're planning on breaking up with him before it)). He'd be crushed to see you there.

Best of luck.How to break up with your boyfriend?
When relationships dissolve it can be substantially depressing. I was in a comparable state of affairs myself at one time but I got some great guidance and info from http://wanolt.easyrelationshipsonline.info .

How do you break up with your boyfriend without hurting him?

I need to know this?How do you break up with your boyfriend without hurting him?
You have to break some eggs to make an omelette. Its going to hurt him no matter what.

Be totally honest and sincere. Be clear and specific and don't sugar coat anything becuase if he has strong feelings for you, he will be looking for the smallest bit of hope that you as a coupe would work out. False hope is killer for a guy, we would rather know it all, break it off and find somplace to lick our wounds than to be strung along.

Avoid cliche's at all cost. Cliche's are so cheesy and phony that its more like a slap in the face. Take the time to answer all his questions in one hit, meaning don't let him keep you on the line to ask you questions over days or weeks. Get it over with in one long conversation so make time.How do you break up with your boyfriend without hurting him?
I really wish women would stop asking this because other than not breaking up with them then there is no way not to hurt them just do it quickly don't play around because the longer you take the worst it will be. do it face to face they deserve that %26amp; be nice but don't give long drawn out explanation just tell them %26amp; leave.....

also don't do the'; I still want to be your friend'; because it leave hope in their mind %26amp; it never works out
Just tell him you need to be by yourself for right now. You have a lot of stuff you need to figure out with your life.

To be honest, any way you go about it, it is probably going to hurt him. Just be as nice as you possibly can. Just say you need to be single and alone for your own purposes, but be very firm.

If there isn't a chase of you two reconciling later on down the road, do not lie to him and give him false hope with saying you just need some time apart, and maybe things can work out after you have space.

That will just hurt him even more.

If there is someone else, do not tell him that, even if he asks you.

Also, don't give him the classic ';its not you, its me'; line. Try to be more original and sincere with telling him how you feel.
You can't...

How do you break up with your boyfriend?

There's no chemistry, I don't feel attracted to him and I wanna just be friends but he likes me a lot and I don't want to hurt him.How do you break up with your boyfriend?
just tell him. if he really likes you, he'll understand. If he gets mad at you, then thats his problem for not understanding

good luck!!How do you break up with your boyfriend?
just say: i'm really sorry, but i think we should date other people, i think of you more as a friend, so i think it would be better if we kept it like that.
She took me to dinner, paid for the dinner, then broke up with me when I was dropping her off at her house. Actually being broken up with on a full stomach and money in my wallet didn't feel all that bad. Though I was still exteremly disappointed.

I can honestly say it was the best break up I've ever had....

How to break up with your boyfriend?

I'm fourteen and i've been going out with this guy for a month. He is really sweet but we go to different schools so i see him maybe once a week if I'm lucky. Recently made out with this guy I've been in love with for two years but he also has a girlfriend of 11 months. I told my boyfriend and he forgave me but I can't seem to be able to forget about it and I don't really like my boyfriend anymore. How do I let him down?How to break up with your boyfriend?
Invest in your love and to be happy.

Happiness doesn't depend on any external conditions, it is governed by our mental attitude. When you make a commitment to a relationship, you invest your attention and energy in it more profoundly because you now experience ownership of that relationship.How to break up with your boyfriend?
Tell him that your 14, dating for a month, and dont go to the same school....its not a big deal.
You're 14. You shouldn't be making out, especially with someone who has a girlfriend. As for your question, just tell him that you're sorry but your feelings have changed, and you just want to be friends.

How to break up with your boyfriend?

I had a boyfriend and we had been dating for around 3 weeks, but i wanna break up with him becuz we had different religion. I am a buddhist, he's a christian, what is the best reason to break up? thank you so much!!!! :)How to break up with your boyfriend?
Just explain to him how you feel. Trust me, if he's christian then he'd understand.How to break up with your boyfriend?
ummm......you want to break up with him due to a difference in religion, and want to know what reason to give him? how about the truth? Don't sugar coat it, just explain that you are from two different religions, and do not see a future for the two of you.

Pretty simple really
actually i think it's pretty stupid to break up with someone because of religion. would you break up with someone if you liked the chargers and they liked the raiders? if you really want to break up with him just tell him the real reason and don't be a ***** *** liar.
just say that yu cnt go behind nd leiing to ur religion

yu dnt feel that its right

nd might be the best way to stay friends

no hard feelings

hoped i helped

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just tell him you don't feel the same about him anymore

simple as that

or say you just want to be friends
you just have to be real.

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If you break up with your boyfriend and he sleeps with someone else.?

and he tells you he's had sex with another female within a month and the whole time he's telling you how much he wants you back and misses you so much and wants to be with you so much and even calls you and leaves a message crying sayin ';whyy whyy'; and hangs up how can you believe he still loves you? Can you honestly still love and feel the same way about someone even though you've already slept with someone else? I broke up with my boyfriend because he didn't really treat me good and I got tired of it but now I'm missing him a lot and it really doesn't feel much better to break up with someone than to have them break up with you. My heart's broken. But i'm the one who broke up with him. He told me he wanted to be back with me and we started to argue(not in person)and he told me he had already slept with someone else. how do you say both things in one day? I'm so lost. I don't believe he can love me while sleeping with another. It would be great to hear from men too!If you break up with your boyfriend and he sleeps with someone else.?
It sounds kind of like he's playing games with you. He may just be ';telling'; you he slept with someone else to get a reaction out of you. It also sounds like he's ';needy'; and a bit desperate. Not a good combination.

Judging by your description of his post-break up behavior, I would say you did the right thing in breaking up with him. It doesn't sound like it was a very healthy relationship, and it would only have gotten worse. It's totally normal for you to miss him and that your heart would be broken (even though he treated you badly). Please give yourself time to get over it. You'll always remember him, but the hurt WILL STOP, and you'll be able to move on with confidence. Don't go back to him or the cycle will only continue.If you break up with your boyfriend and he sleeps with someone else.?
If he did not treat you good in your relationship.. how do you think it will be different if you take him back..

answer: It wont change.

Take the heartbreak and move on. Life is full of heartbreaks.. its a good think that there are plenty of good times to be had too.
Ditch that action.
You broke up with him for a reason. And you need to stay firm on your decisions, otherwise if you go back with him, you're going to get back to the same cycle of problems. I suggest you to move on and don't ever get back with him.
A leopard does not change it spots. If you get back together, he will not change his beaviour towards you as h will believe that you like it - the old treat 'em mean to kep 'em keen scenario. Secondly he is having sex with other women - will he suddenly stop if you are back together? A leopard doesn't change its spots.

Yes you are heart broken - thats normal. Eat chocolate and survive!
He definitely loves you for who you are, but he also seems to be addicted to sex. Imagine if you were married to this guy and you went on a business trip to Switzerland (or some other country) for a month. Would you trust that he wouldn't be sleeping with someone else throughout that time? A strong relationship cannot be founded on mistrust.

If you truly are forgiving and wish to give him another chance, you need to set a lot of things straight with him. For example, since he slept with someone else, you should tell him that, if he truly does love you, he'll get an STD test and let you see the results. If he refuses, then tell him that you don't want to maintain a relationship with someone who doesn't trust you that you will make the right decision about your health. Then you have to warn him that, if you ever find out that he's slept with someone else in the future, then you're free to leave him permanently because you don't want to be with someone who is going to constantly hurt your emotions.
First of all you did the right thing to break it off with him since he don't treat you better. If he slept with someone within a month after the two of you broke up, clearly that he really don't love you as he pretend to love you. my answer to your question is no, he only playing games with you.

Can you see that he is only play mind games with you and it seem like it working. long as you listen to his crap and slowly you will believe that you're the bad one and not him. I would suggest that you shouldn't listen to any of his messages and have your phone number change.

Please answer this, what do you really miss about him? From what I understand that he miss treat you almost on regular basics. Do you miss the way that he treat you is that what you miss about him? Why would you want to be with someone like him if you wanted to be treated better.

drop him and move on with your life, if he means that much to you and you feel sorry for him to take him back. then you need to stop the whinning and deal with it. And then ask yourself this one question. What kind of person am I ?

How to BREAK UP with your boyfriend for dummies?

so im a dummy, i need help to break up with my FIRST boyfriend. im 13 and weve been going out for 7 weeks

(i dont think im to young to have a boyfriend but i learned what a pain in the a55 relationships are so im staying away from boys for some time[: , so dont say ';ur to youngg';plz)

i dont feel the same about him anymore. i need to break up with him urgently but every time i tell myself im gonna break up with him, i chicken out.

like im right infront of him and im thinking ';im gonna break up with him rite now'; but i just dont do it..

i need alot of help and tips and stuff hahaha

can you help me plzzz?How to BREAK UP with your boyfriend for dummies?
Say this IN PERSON:

'; I've really enjoyed spending time with you and getting to know each other better. But lately I've started to feel we would be better off continuing our relationship just as friends';. If he is upset, just explain yourself calmly, respect his feelings, and don't add any fuel by agreeing to get back together with him. Good luck!How to BREAK UP with your boyfriend for dummies?
Don't do it with him over email

Or phone.

OR TEXT!

in person, be a brave girl!

Say exactly this;

';You're really special to me, you know we've got so much in common, but i don't know, maybe, we should just be friends, i thought i was ready for a proper relationship but i'm just not.';

I USE IT ALL THE TIME ;D
I'm 13, too, and i know from experience that u HAVE TO DO IT!!! He mite already be expecting it. Whateva u do, dont break up over email/text/im/note, cuz no one likes dat!! Just say i dont think we should go out. Or, i think we need to break up. Whatever u do, tho, dont say u need a break, if u arent planning on getting back 2gether. Just, watever u say, make sure u mean it. Oh, and watever u do, dont break up with him in front of his friends, or ur friends, cuz thats embarrassing!
just go up to him, face to face..and tell him that you've enjoyed the time together, but you can't deal with a relationship in this stage of your life. tell him you wish him the best, give him a hug and be on your way. its honest and straight to the point.
if your old enough to have a bf,then you should be strong enough to break up.You need to tell him face to face ,that will be better.The sooner you break up,the better it will be.
Best way to do it is just to tell him. Explain your reasons why %26amp; get it over with. Don't be cruel, though. Try to put yourself in his position. You're not doing either of you any favors by dragging it out.
just tell him you dont have enought time for a boyfriend rite now and that he means a lot to you , and would still like to be friends with him.
and that is why i live my high school life free of guys. Just kidding, well, you could just like avoid him and see if he gets what you're trying to do. If he freaks out, then just tell him you want to spend your time on other things.
tell him that you just don't think you should be together anymore because you see him as a friend more than a boyfriend. and that it just wouldn't be fair to him.
give him a letter instead..explain everything in there. let him read it in front of you so you would see and know his reactions and what he's got to say...
Be truthful, tell him in your own exact words ASAP. The more you wait and hesitate, the worse and harder breaking up with him will be.
dont avoid him just say we need 2 talk, then he'll prolly already know where its going and say i think were better as just friends. the longer u wait the worse it willl be dont worry hell get over it
TELL HIM A PART OF BECOMING A MAN IS TO REALIZE WHEN ITS OVER BETWEEN TWO PEOPLE AND WHEN ITS TIME TO MOVE ON.IF THIS DOES NT WORK TALK TO YOUR DAD THATS WHAT DADS ARE FOR :)
say that u dont tihnk of him as a boyfriend and youll be friends with him and if he bitches, its his problem
it's not you it's me, actually wait a sec...it is you.
just tell him you think you need to take a break
just tell him you think you're better as friends.
juts tell him u need sum time away

How are you supposed to break-up with your boyfriend?

i told him i want to break-up but he told me he doesn't want toHow are you supposed to break-up with your boyfriend?
If you want to break up with him, meet him somewhere and talk to him in person. Tell him that you have given this serious thought and that it is better for both of you and wish him luck. Then do not call him for a while (if you want to stay in communication with him) so he knows that you are no longer dating. Good luck.How are you supposed to break-up with your boyfriend?
Tell him: ';YOU'RE FIRED';!
look him in the eye and tell him its over and your moving on
You say I know you don't want to but I do so it's over ok? bye

I hope I helped
He may not want to, but it's each person's right to break off a relationship anytime they decide to. Tell him you understand he's hurt right now, but that it's your choice to end the relationship now. Stay firm. He cannot tell you no. It's your life and you can choose to stay or go.
simply tell him the real reason why, and if he really loves you, he'll understand no matter how painful it may be for him.

if in case the reason why you want to break up with him is because you think he doesn't love you anymore... then just break-up with him. period. no more explanations needed, he wouldn't mind it anyway.
darling, if you say its over he doesnt have much say in the matter... he sounds clingy!

why don't you want to be with him anymore? explain to him why. you may hurt him now, but in the long run its for the best.

just tell him straight that its over. try and be sensitive, but dont let him think theres any chance of getting back together if there isnt. =]

sometimes you have to be cruel to be kind..

hopefully he'll get over it quickly =]

good luck =]
okay, this one is showing stalker tendencies. cut off communication with him and refuse to see him. if you cave when he tries to contact you, it's only going to make him think he's still having his way and controlling you.

if you have to take out a restraining order, do it. there is nothing ';charming'; about being harassed by someone who won't leave you alone.
you might just have to cut off contact with him for the time being. It sounds like it would be hard for you to do that, but you have to be strong if this is really what you want.
Honesty is always best. Just level with him. He might not like it but at least he'll know where he stands.
just wait a little more and try to enjoy his company more.

try to hang out with him more, go to places. and everything

if u know that the ralationship is not like u want it to be. then just tell him that u dont have any feelings 4 him anymore. he has to understand. but try to stay as friends with him
I was in a similar situation once..he told me he'd to anything except break up. I wasn't really determined though so it lasted for another two weeks. Eventually we drifted apart because of my rather distant behavior. Not saying it would work like that. You should talk to him about it some more, be very clear that you don't want him anymore and if he simply doesn't listen, cut him off.
It isn't open for discussion. If one person wants to break up it's over.
So? I don't understand the problem. You told him; that should be the end of the story.

Am I missing something? Are you his slave? Does he own you?
explain to him why the relationship is no longer working out, and then let him know that it's the best thing to end it. He really does not have a choice if you are breaking up with him, tell him not to make it harder than it needs to be.
its not what he wants know is it!!!!!!!!!!!!
You are going about this completely the wrong way. You are not having a negotiation with him or asking him to accept your decision.

You are giving him information about a decision which you have made and which he can not change.

Period.

Do it respectfully and gently but be clear that it is over.
well its not really his choice. it only takes one person to end a relationship. Be firm and tell him your not together anymore
Tell him : ';You're the weakest link... Good-Bye...';

seriously, if what u said is not clear enough for him, then u need to really spell it out to him!

Good Luck...

c';,)
if you go and find a new boyfriend and bring him to your soon to be ex maybe he will get it then.
Do it in front of a lot of people, or friends. Or get a T.R.O. on his *** if it takes that, but you should be able to do as you please, unless he's crazy and can't live without you.
Just tell him: ';k if you want to keep on going, do I'm off for a ride now, meeting new people';.
depends on whats been done... if you love each other then you can always fix a problem
Breaking up is one of the dirtiest job . You have to take care of your feelings and just let him know that your feelings aren't the same as is . And the best thing is go separate ways . Good luck
If you want to break up with him what does it matter if he doesn't want to break up. Sounds to me like you really don't want to break up that bad, or you would just walk away.