How To Break Up with Your BOYFRIEND?

Me and my boyfriend have been together a year. Take note i am ONLY 14. But he lies to me and i find out the truth about a month later. He makes promises to me and breaks them. He hates me talking about other boys or glancing at them. WE ARGUE all the time!!

and im fed up of it.. he also is extremely sensitive and gets angry quickly. I guess the reason i dont want to break up with him is because HE HAS been lovely to me and im scared..



Im terrified of being hurt bcause i KNOW it will tak ages for me to get over him..



What shall i do?How To Break Up with Your BOYFRIEND?
Him lying to you is a big red flag. Just let him go, sweetie. There will be better guys out there.How To Break Up with Your BOYFRIEND?
A year is quite a long time to be with someone especially wen u r so young. You have realised there is a problem. Your boyfriend has been lying to you and the trust has gone frpm this relationship. You say he gets angry quickly which suggests you might be a little intimidated by him too. You have a deifficult decision. You can either stay with him and try to build up trust. The best way to do this is by talking however you say that you argue all the time. The other option is to break up. Feeling upset is awful and it might take you a while to get over him...but you will get over him - if thats what you choose to do. :-)
It will hurt and luckily you realise that now.



Unfortunately you will have to be blunt with him and tell him how you feel and why you feel like this.



I would tell him and state that you are willing to give him one more chance or you are over.



I am sorry to see you put in this position as i have been there and i know how painful this is going to be.



I am the same age as you to.



If you ever need to chat then please feel free to email me. I will chat to anyone about anything if they need help.



pottylaura1993@yahoo.co.uk



Best Wishes.



Lossa



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im 14 to and the ones above have clearly never been in a situation like this, this young. first tell him you are thinking of breaking up wit him then see his reaction and give him the 3 day treatment. then if you are going to go in for the plunge tell him you just want to be friends and say it to his face dont get any of your friends or msn or phone xx
Just finish it, you're 14, it's not like he is the one and only. Come on, you can be friends, ok, by why would you go out with a liar? Just have more respect for yourself than for him and it will be so much easier to get over him.
Well first tell him the way he feels on your relationship if he says fine then you tell him that you don't find it OK and he has to change or it will be over! That might spook him a little if not then just say ';it's not working and well.............it's over!!!';
I'm sorry it,s not working out for you two! Just do it say ';insert name her, I'm really sorry but your lying to me is not cool! I think we should just be friends.'; Sound so corny i know. Also NEVER break up over email or text! BIG MISTAKE!
well, if u wanna brake up with him do it in a NICE way.

just tell him its not working out.

im 14 too and i hate boys like that.

got ?s email me

gwenfan113@yahoo.com

(: hope i helped
Im confused....
why you ask a very very silly question......





just say your ugly i dont want to go out with you no more.
lol/...
get over it yur onli 14
My gf just dumped me......
breaking up is a part of life. It sounds as if he doesn't trust you and if your 14 its not as if your going to do anything big with guys if you know what i mean. If he really does love you then he will want you to be happy all the time and if he breaks promises to you then its not making you happy. He's not a good guy. honestly, i'm surprised you lasted a year. Get rid of him and get straight back out there. There is a guy out there who will appreciate you and give you the decentcy and respect you deserve. Sorry if i sound a bit harsh but its the truth in my opinion. Gud luk.
i dont think he sounds worth ur tears or pain.



my friend is having a similiar situation with a boyfriend who is refusing to be dumped and has become sincerely angry, threatening and verbally aggressive to her.



i asked for her opinion and, well, shes a sensitive one (!) so all i got was:

';i have nothing to suggest. only that, there's really no easy to do it. she will hurt for a few days/weeks, but if she's fed up, she'll have to suck it up';



but ignore that. if hes making u feel bad than id just dump him, sure you will hurt, and so will he.

but if hes making u feel like that then hes not worth it.

to be fair you are young, its not as if u will never find love again.

you'll get over it in time and move on.



try to stay friends. work things out and get to know one another again...

and maybe in time you'll just click again, or maybe you will both move on, who knows.



all i know is that whatever u choose u will make it. its not the end of the world.

and I (we) wish u the best of luck with watever u choose.

:)