Sunday, November 21, 2010

How are you supposed to break-up with your boyfriend?

i told him i want to break-up but he told me he doesn't want toHow are you supposed to break-up with your boyfriend?
If you want to break up with him, meet him somewhere and talk to him in person. Tell him that you have given this serious thought and that it is better for both of you and wish him luck. Then do not call him for a while (if you want to stay in communication with him) so he knows that you are no longer dating. Good luck.How are you supposed to break-up with your boyfriend?
Tell him: ';YOU'RE FIRED';!
look him in the eye and tell him its over and your moving on
You say I know you don't want to but I do so it's over ok? bye

I hope I helped
He may not want to, but it's each person's right to break off a relationship anytime they decide to. Tell him you understand he's hurt right now, but that it's your choice to end the relationship now. Stay firm. He cannot tell you no. It's your life and you can choose to stay or go.
simply tell him the real reason why, and if he really loves you, he'll understand no matter how painful it may be for him.



if in case the reason why you want to break up with him is because you think he doesn't love you anymore... then just break-up with him. period. no more explanations needed, he wouldn't mind it anyway.
darling, if you say its over he doesnt have much say in the matter... he sounds clingy!



why don't you want to be with him anymore? explain to him why. you may hurt him now, but in the long run its for the best.



just tell him straight that its over. try and be sensitive, but dont let him think theres any chance of getting back together if there isnt. =]



sometimes you have to be cruel to be kind..



hopefully he'll get over it quickly =]



good luck =]
okay, this one is showing stalker tendencies. cut off communication with him and refuse to see him. if you cave when he tries to contact you, it's only going to make him think he's still having his way and controlling you.



if you have to take out a restraining order, do it. there is nothing ';charming'; about being harassed by someone who won't leave you alone.
you might just have to cut off contact with him for the time being. It sounds like it would be hard for you to do that, but you have to be strong if this is really what you want.
Honesty is always best. Just level with him. He might not like it but at least he'll know where he stands.
just wait a little more and try to enjoy his company more.

try to hang out with him more, go to places. and everything

if u know that the ralationship is not like u want it to be. then just tell him that u dont have any feelings 4 him anymore. he has to understand. but try to stay as friends with him
I was in a similar situation once..he told me he'd to anything except break up. I wasn't really determined though so it lasted for another two weeks. Eventually we drifted apart because of my rather distant behavior. Not saying it would work like that. You should talk to him about it some more, be very clear that you don't want him anymore and if he simply doesn't listen, cut him off.
It isn't open for discussion. If one person wants to break up it's over.
So? I don't understand the problem. You told him; that should be the end of the story.



Am I missing something? Are you his slave? Does he own you?
explain to him why the relationship is no longer working out, and then let him know that it's the best thing to end it. He really does not have a choice if you are breaking up with him, tell him not to make it harder than it needs to be.
its not what he wants know is it!!!!!!!!!!!!
You are going about this completely the wrong way. You are not having a negotiation with him or asking him to accept your decision.



You are giving him information about a decision which you have made and which he can not change.



Period.



Do it respectfully and gently but be clear that it is over.
well its not really his choice. it only takes one person to end a relationship. Be firm and tell him your not together anymore
Tell him : ';You're the weakest link... Good-Bye...';



seriously, if what u said is not clear enough for him, then u need to really spell it out to him!



Good Luck...



c';,)
if you go and find a new boyfriend and bring him to your soon to be ex maybe he will get it then.
Do it in front of a lot of people, or friends. Or get a T.R.O. on his *** if it takes that, but you should be able to do as you please, unless he's crazy and can't live without you.
Just tell him: ';k if you want to keep on going, do I'm off for a ride now, meeting new people';.
depends on whats been done... if you love each other then you can always fix a problem
Breaking up is one of the dirtiest job . You have to take care of your feelings and just let him know that your feelings aren't the same as is . And the best thing is go separate ways . Good luck
If you want to break up with him what does it matter if he doesn't want to break up. Sounds to me like you really don't want to break up that bad, or you would just walk away.

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