How to break up with your boyfriend who says he loves me?

ok so his name is tom. i dont really like him anymore... but he says he loves me. i think he is taking it to fast. we have been going out for about a month, and he wants to kiss me. i really want to know how i should break up with him. im 14 and i dont really want to kiss him and i tried telling him but he wont listen.my best friend broke up with her boyfriend 2 days ago and they are having a lotta drama. so i dont want to look like a copy catter so what do i do?? answer by 8:00 am tomorrow morning.( 10-16-09)How to break up with your boyfriend who says he loves me?
Well, it doesn't matter what other people are doing. If you don't want to kiss him he should respect that. if he doesn't then he doesn't need to be with you.And you certainly shouldn't be going out with someone if you don't want to be going out with them. If he really does ';love you'; he will respect you and give you your space.