Sunday, November 21, 2010

How to BREAK UP with your boyfriend for dummies?

so im a dummy, i need help to break up with my FIRST boyfriend. im 13 and weve been going out for 7 weeks



(i dont think im to young to have a boyfriend but i learned what a pain in the a55 relationships are so im staying away from boys for some time[: , so dont say ';ur to youngg';plz)



i dont feel the same about him anymore. i need to break up with him urgently but every time i tell myself im gonna break up with him, i chicken out.

like im right infront of him and im thinking ';im gonna break up with him rite now'; but i just dont do it..

i need alot of help and tips and stuff hahaha

can you help me plzzz?How to BREAK UP with your boyfriend for dummies?
Say this IN PERSON:

'; I've really enjoyed spending time with you and getting to know each other better. But lately I've started to feel we would be better off continuing our relationship just as friends';. If he is upset, just explain yourself calmly, respect his feelings, and don't add any fuel by agreeing to get back together with him. Good luck!How to BREAK UP with your boyfriend for dummies?
Don't do it with him over email

Or phone.

OR TEXT!



in person, be a brave girl!

Say exactly this;

';You're really special to me, you know we've got so much in common, but i don't know, maybe, we should just be friends, i thought i was ready for a proper relationship but i'm just not.';



I USE IT ALL THE TIME ;D
I'm 13, too, and i know from experience that u HAVE TO DO IT!!! He mite already be expecting it. Whateva u do, dont break up over email/text/im/note, cuz no one likes dat!! Just say i dont think we should go out. Or, i think we need to break up. Whatever u do, tho, dont say u need a break, if u arent planning on getting back 2gether. Just, watever u say, make sure u mean it. Oh, and watever u do, dont break up with him in front of his friends, or ur friends, cuz thats embarrassing!
just go up to him, face to face..and tell him that you've enjoyed the time together, but you can't deal with a relationship in this stage of your life. tell him you wish him the best, give him a hug and be on your way. its honest and straight to the point.
if your old enough to have a bf,then you should be strong enough to break up.You need to tell him face to face ,that will be better.The sooner you break up,the better it will be.
Best way to do it is just to tell him. Explain your reasons why %26amp; get it over with. Don't be cruel, though. Try to put yourself in his position. You're not doing either of you any favors by dragging it out.
just tell him you dont have enought time for a boyfriend rite now and that he means a lot to you , and would still like to be friends with him.
and that is why i live my high school life free of guys. Just kidding, well, you could just like avoid him and see if he gets what you're trying to do. If he freaks out, then just tell him you want to spend your time on other things.
tell him that you just don't think you should be together anymore because you see him as a friend more than a boyfriend. and that it just wouldn't be fair to him.
give him a letter instead..explain everything in there. let him read it in front of you so you would see and know his reactions and what he's got to say...
Be truthful, tell him in your own exact words ASAP. The more you wait and hesitate, the worse and harder breaking up with him will be.
dont avoid him just say we need 2 talk, then he'll prolly already know where its going and say i think were better as just friends. the longer u wait the worse it willl be dont worry hell get over it
TELL HIM A PART OF BECOMING A MAN IS TO REALIZE WHEN ITS OVER BETWEEN TWO PEOPLE AND WHEN ITS TIME TO MOVE ON.IF THIS DOES NT WORK TALK TO YOUR DAD THATS WHAT DADS ARE FOR :)
say that u dont tihnk of him as a boyfriend and youll be friends with him and if he bitches, its his problem
it's not you it's me, actually wait a sec...it is you.
just tell him you think you need to take a break
just tell him you think you're better as friends.
juts tell him u need sum time away

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