How can you break up with your current boyfriend without hurting him too badly?

Ive been this boys gf over 4 times and i just say yes to not be mean. He is hedious(not to be mean) and,...let me just say lumpy...how can i say it's over without hurting him too badly? And am I being too nice??How can you break up with your current boyfriend without hurting him too badly?
Just be all like.. look man, you're a great guy and all but im just not happy with you, we're better off friends. I'm seeking happiness in other places cuz im not getting it in our relationshipHow can you break up with your current boyfriend without hurting him too badly?
tell him you have the clap
Stop worrying about him and start thinking about yourself. Just let him go and let him know clearly that your affair is over. Period!
go into crazy ***** mode. pretend everyday is pms day and make him hate you. that's it. blame it on your pms if anyone ask.
saying yes when you dont like him WORST THING YOU CAN DO
guys dont care.
Are you seriously dumping him because of how he looks?

That's shallow. Really shallow...



But you can't dump him without hurting him. If he likes you, you're going to hurt him either way. There's no 'nice way' to dump somebody. So I would just say ';we're better off as friends'; or something.
Why did you agree to be his girlfriend if you know you didn't like him in the first place. You have to be more careful of how you play with people's feelings. If and when you do break up with him, just be careful. Everybody doesn't take rejection too well.
tell him its not working out..or give an excuse like you have other things to deal with that you don't have time to have a boyfriend at this point in time..

hoped that help..
your just doing something to make someone else feel better about themselves..think about yourself for once and tell him its not working or make something up like ....you're oving away, parents want you to have a arranged marraige, or do stuff that'll make him get discusted...tell him you need a looong break....and make it very long so he gets over you and gives up
Breakups are never nice.. im sorry but its the truth. The truth is the hardest way to go but just say it, theres ways you can say it without being a ';*****'; if u know what i mean, tell him you said yes so much because you were afraid of hurting his feelings, tell him that you're not right for him, and it will honestly never work out in a relationship so he doesnt keep having a false hope, he'll find another girl theres plenty, and you'll find another guy theres plenty.
in a way you are being too nice. sometimes you just have to say no to people..what doesnt kill us makes us stronger right?

but when u break up with him do it in person and be nice about it..but dont back down and that about all u can do. he will most likely be hurt but he will get over it (i mean that in a nice way) but theres never really an easy way to break up with someone
there is no way to break up with your boyfriend without hurting him. just break up with him as nicely as possible. don't tell him that you want to break up with him harshly and don't directly tell him what you want to do. you need to stop thinking about him so much and think about yourself. just put yourself first because it is important that you are happy and aren't just in a relationship with somebody just because you don't want to hurt him by breaking up with him.
Make him slowly start to hate you. Then find someone else for him and get the two of them to hook up.
My advice to you is to be honest with him and let him know that your not attracted to him in that way. Just think if the shoe was on the other foot and you felt a certain way about someone but they didnt about you would you want to know. Just be as polite as possible and let him know that you guys are better off being friends rather than dating. Be honest and he will be fine!
Ive been in the same position except the guy was pretty cute. I felt like I was dating my brother. I said yes cause I liked him then and I didnt want to be mean but then I got bored cause we were totally different and I just wasnt feeling it. Anyways best way to break up with him is to tell him you just want to be friends and its over. Dont be to nice or he wont get the message, but dont be to mean either!
try 2 ignore him 4 a couple days ,, let him feel that u r not into him first



then talk 2 him !
are you saying you can get a better guy with your looks??



Talk it over with the guy... say i'm getting detached from this relationship because i like another guy better (even if you don't have another guy, doesn't matter).



If he is really happy being with you and you can see it, then of course he'll be hurt. Doesn't matter what you say. So grow some boobs and tell him things that will hurt him,

he has to learn to take care of himself, go gym and get some cream to get rid of **** from his face if anything...that's it..