If you break up with your boyfriend and he sleeps with someone else.?

and he tells you he's had sex with another female within a month and the whole time he's telling you how much he wants you back and misses you so much and wants to be with you so much and even calls you and leaves a message crying sayin ';whyy whyy'; and hangs up how can you believe he still loves you? Can you honestly still love and feel the same way about someone even though you've already slept with someone else? I broke up with my boyfriend because he didn't really treat me good and I got tired of it but now I'm missing him a lot and it really doesn't feel much better to break up with someone than to have them break up with you. My heart's broken. But i'm the one who broke up with him. He told me he wanted to be back with me and we started to argue(not in person)and he told me he had already slept with someone else. how do you say both things in one day? I'm so lost. I don't believe he can love me while sleeping with another. It would be great to hear from men too!If you break up with your boyfriend and he sleeps with someone else.?
It sounds kind of like he's playing games with you. He may just be ';telling'; you he slept with someone else to get a reaction out of you. It also sounds like he's ';needy'; and a bit desperate. Not a good combination.



Judging by your description of his post-break up behavior, I would say you did the right thing in breaking up with him. It doesn't sound like it was a very healthy relationship, and it would only have gotten worse. It's totally normal for you to miss him and that your heart would be broken (even though he treated you badly). Please give yourself time to get over it. You'll always remember him, but the hurt WILL STOP, and you'll be able to move on with confidence. Don't go back to him or the cycle will only continue.If you break up with your boyfriend and he sleeps with someone else.?
If he did not treat you good in your relationship.. how do you think it will be different if you take him back..



answer: It wont change.



Take the heartbreak and move on. Life is full of heartbreaks.. its a good think that there are plenty of good times to be had too.
Ditch that action.
You broke up with him for a reason. And you need to stay firm on your decisions, otherwise if you go back with him, you're going to get back to the same cycle of problems. I suggest you to move on and don't ever get back with him.
A leopard does not change it spots. If you get back together, he will not change his beaviour towards you as h will believe that you like it - the old treat 'em mean to kep 'em keen scenario. Secondly he is having sex with other women - will he suddenly stop if you are back together? A leopard doesn't change its spots.



Yes you are heart broken - thats normal. Eat chocolate and survive!
He definitely loves you for who you are, but he also seems to be addicted to sex. Imagine if you were married to this guy and you went on a business trip to Switzerland (or some other country) for a month. Would you trust that he wouldn't be sleeping with someone else throughout that time? A strong relationship cannot be founded on mistrust.

If you truly are forgiving and wish to give him another chance, you need to set a lot of things straight with him. For example, since he slept with someone else, you should tell him that, if he truly does love you, he'll get an STD test and let you see the results. If he refuses, then tell him that you don't want to maintain a relationship with someone who doesn't trust you that you will make the right decision about your health. Then you have to warn him that, if you ever find out that he's slept with someone else in the future, then you're free to leave him permanently because you don't want to be with someone who is going to constantly hurt your emotions.
First of all you did the right thing to break it off with him since he don't treat you better. If he slept with someone within a month after the two of you broke up, clearly that he really don't love you as he pretend to love you. my answer to your question is no, he only playing games with you.



Can you see that he is only play mind games with you and it seem like it working. long as you listen to his crap and slowly you will believe that you're the bad one and not him. I would suggest that you shouldn't listen to any of his messages and have your phone number change.



Please answer this, what do you really miss about him? From what I understand that he miss treat you almost on regular basics. Do you miss the way that he treat you is that what you miss about him? Why would you want to be with someone like him if you wanted to be treated better.

drop him and move on with your life, if he means that much to you and you feel sorry for him to take him back. then you need to stop the whinning and deal with it. And then ask yourself this one question. What kind of person am I ?