Friday, November 19, 2010

How to break up with your boyfriend thats ';in love'; with you..?

Hes driving me insane! ive talked to him, but he wont stop. Hes too clingy and too caring.. always ';are you okay?!?!'; if I just say ow..How to break up with your boyfriend thats ';in love'; with you..?
If you want to break up with him just tell him flat out. I cant be with you any more, i need my space.



If you want to give him a chance(recommended) tell him that you think hes being a bit clingy. He cld back off or you cld go with the first option.



I really hope youll try the second one. hes jjust trying to be a good bf and to take care of you :)How to break up with your boyfriend thats ';in love'; with you..?
tell him striaght up, but not too cruel! either way ur gonna breakup with him
get a restraining order against him..... but if not then just start talking to other guys, make it be none that your single and that your moving on with your life and let him know what he's not in the future so he needs to move on too.
Start out by politely telling him all the things that bother you --like what you just said. If he gets all emotional on you or says ';i'll change!!'; and stuff just tell hin you've made your mind and hope you can be friends, but you really don't see ever being more than friends with him again. Reassure him that there are TONS of girls that, for whatever reason, like guys like that --you're just not one of them.
I went out with someone like that. He was incredibly clingy and would never stop texting me. Maybe you could suggest a break to him and see where that goes. If he doesn't listen stand up for yourself and be firm, tell him that being clingy is annoying and you don't want to be with him if he won't give you space.

Hope this works.

xo
at least hes not an a**hole
I've had one of those..



The only way to get rid of him was by cheating and telling him straight up. No lie. Even after that, he still kissed me when I saw him, but I ended up being in a current three-year relationship with the guy I cheated on him with. No cheating this time. He's perfect%26lt;3
Just leave.
if it bothers u that much, then break up with him but tell him asap. dont leave him hanging or he will b all like ';no dont leave me, i need u, i can change';. when u do it, tell him all the facts that bother u straight out so u both can move on and change in ur next relationship. it is best for the both of u, trust me. :)
if u want to break up with him just tell him and say srry i had fun lets just be friends thats what i did and we r still friends
You have to be stern at this point... You've tried nice and even civil and now it's to the point where enough is enough! It's OK to be mean sometimes.... it's unfortunate that you have to, but it's past the point of being Ms. Nice Girl....
i've kinda had the same problem, only mine was abusive.

i would strongly suggest talking to him, and if he doesnt change, leaving him.





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Ha! You've got a clinger. You need to cut that turd loose from the dingle berry patch. You can't be nice with these types, it'll just drag out until it gets super ugly.
Well, tell him that you want to break up with him because he cares about you too much and that you need your space. I bet he will be kind of upset saying ';I just care about you'; but since you talked to him he should have listened. That's when you should say ';You should have listened the first time';
look if care about him--stick and found out. and just try to know FOR SURE!!!! dont want to hurt yourself. you might miss him.



but.



if know, i mean KNOW!! dont care about him, dont waste each others time.



the best way would just be to tell him in the nicest way. i like you but i dont thinks its fair when i dont feel the same.



good luck
Why not talk to him and tell him that he's driving you insane with the overprotective nature. Truthfully, a lot of people would find this romantic as all get out and after a while it's ';get out';. He probably doesn't realize that it is to the point that you want to break it off with him. Just sit him down and let him know how you feel. If there are other reasons for the breakup to seem very appealing then reveal those as well. There is nothing worse than ending a relationship and blaming the other person entirely. I mean, if there is another romantic interest on your part. I wish you all the best.

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