The best way to break-up with your boyfriend !?

I want to break up with my boyfriend but i dont no how. I no he really likes me and i no this will really hurt him but its just not right for me and i have my reasons but how will i break up with him =S thanks =)The best way to break-up with your boyfriend !?
No body can force you to love them or make you return the feelings they have for you.This means that you have the right to break up with your boyfriend for whatever reasons you have. Having said that you have to do it in an honest ,nice,and tender manner .Start by sitting him down,tell him your reasons for wanting to break up,answer any questions he may have ,apologize for the pain and hurt you have caused him and wish him well in his future relationships. Be honest in everything you say and understand that he has feelings which you have just hurt.Remember that he may still have feelings for you and may plead with you not to end it,that he would do anything to make it better and make you happier. Do not offer him any false hopes and do not stretch out the process.Be firm but sensitive.The best way to break-up with your boyfriend !?
tell him ur reasons and if he actually likes u he shud respect them
:S i hate break-ups

just say the usual its not you its me. lets be friends. im focusing on school.etcc
';I can't be with you right now, i mean (list all your reasons) ...you'll be better off without me.';
Tell him that your realtionship isn't what you are looking for and that it's just not right for you..RIGHT NOW. Maybe in the future you guys can try again but you have personal things that you have take care of before you can care for someone.
This may be mean but what I would do would be to annoy the hell outta him then when he lashes out at you, say *It's* not working
Be honest. Tell him you feel like things are to close and you need to have time to meet other people. Just tell him what you feel and want him to know.
there is no good way to break up with ur boyfriend............just do it
just tell him that you think it would be better to just be friends that you have to do what is best for you. after all you cant live for anyone else but yourself.
DON'T have a friend do it.

DON'T text it.

DON'T just ignore him.

DON'T cheat on him so he breaks up with you.



DO be gentle about it.

DO do it in person.

DO tell him you want to be friends. (Mean it too.)



Be his friend after it all blows over. He will be sad, there is nothing you can do about that, but you can soften the blow.
say..u just wanna be his friend...and not 2 take it in a bad way..hit me up..elserge1 ..at my im..
';your weewee is kind of small, it was a good run though';





no just kidding, be nice about it.
Be honest! if ur not into the relationship, then it's not fair for u to have to stay in it. if ur going to break up with ur boyfriend, do it face-to-face and not on a school day or right before a party. do it when u know he'll be alone, because there's nothing worse than to be crushed when everyone else is having fun.
just tell him ur srry but its over..tell him u cant do this anymore..tell him u still want to b friends but u cant be anymore than that..that your srry but its over..than give him a hug..and walk away



it works for me everytime..love ya's
1 - 2 weeks decreased contact - less returned calls etc...then go to a park and let him know that you'd like to move on...it's hard...do it in a neutral place...
tell him why u want to break up and be honest about it too. he should understand.
Just tell him that you want to go solo a while and that your heart is really not into a relationship right now , that your head is all over the place about things ( Not another boy) and that you really would like to remain friends but if that is not feasible then ok you understand but right now you feel like you are short changing him by not being into it like he really wants you to be and thank him for the time you had together , that it is you and nothing that he did but you just need time to figure some things out now and would appreciate the understanding from him. That is about all you can do or say. Tell him that if he wants to date someone else that it would not make you jealous or mad but that you would be happy to know that he is not alone. That you never wanted him to be alone or made to feel like he did something wrong . It is just you .
cheat on him!!!!!hahaha just kidding be nice nd tell him
just tell him already - but be sympathetic as well and offer to remain friends.
can u drive? if you can, then get in the car, u drive, and be looking forward and say its over, pull over to the side of the road, and get him out of your car. lol jk but something along those lines would work im sure of it.
Although it's harder for you, it's best to do it in person, alone. If you too go to the same school and have the same lunch, do it then. If not, then find a way that you can talk to him alone. Good luck, I just went through this and I know how hard it is
texting, e-mails, even a phone call or voice message sends the message that you really dont car about him enough to break up with him properly.

tell him all the good things you like about being with him ( laugha lot, you make me feel better, you make me feel special, you accept me ect) and then add '; its just'; or '; but'; or ';however'; and then list your reason and maybe add WHY that reason is important to you. conclude withsoemthing like ';you really are a great guy and i know your futer gf will be the luckiest girl going. i just thought u desereved the truth from me so thats why i'm letting you go now.'; or somethign similar



i said my break up in this format ( posatives, ';its just that';, you're a great guy, but i can't handle your ____ and until you stop we can't date anymore) and it was hard but you being honest with him as much as you can be will make him feel like you respect him. justmake sure they're good points other than ';i lost feelings'; b/c if thats the case you can try to find something in addition that cases a valid break up
Honesty really is the best policy.

Whatever your reasons, they are your reasons.

Was it just ';infatuation';? Be straight %26amp; tell him.

Have you grown apart? Are you growing in different directions? Are you growing %26amp; he's not? All are very real, valid reasons.

But give him your reasons.

If he can't accept them, there's not much you can do to make him ';feel better.';

I know you hate to hurt him, but would it be fair to let a relationship that is dead for you linger, giving him false hope %26amp; comfort?

Sooner or later you have to break or condemn yourself to a miserable, resentful relationship. That's not fair to either of you.

Honesty isn't the best policy; it's the only policy for relationships.

Good luck to you both.