Sunday, November 21, 2010

How do you break-up with your boyfriend without hurting him?

i really like my boyfriend, and the only thing that makes me know that i need to breakup with him is that i like another guy a little bit more. i really really care about my boyfriend, and my biggest fear would be to hurt him and lose his friendship. i know for a fact that the other guy likes me, so its not a question of (if) i'll break up with my bf, its (when). does anyone know what to do? i've been about to do it a few times, but every time i'm about to i freeze up. i just don't want to hurt him! sometimes i think one of the best and worst things about me is that i'm extremely passionate.

thankss!

annie %26lt;3How do you break-up with your boyfriend without hurting him?
Unfortunately, there is no easy way to do this, but you have to go to his place and do it in person right away. He probably will get hurt, but there is nothing you can do to avoid it. the longer you drag this on, the worse it will be for both of you. eventually he will be able to move on, but give hime time. good luckHow do you break-up with your boyfriend without hurting him?
Well, don't draw it out. Breaking up will always have that pain and you can't really remove it.



Tell him. You have to be honest with him and with yourself.



Just say, I want to break up. It's hard, it's awkward and it will be difficult, but if you want to move on, you have to let him move on too by breaking up.



Good luck.
The grass is not always greener on the other side. i broke up with this girl because i thought i liked another girl more. then after a few months with the other girl. i really missed the first girl. i even think of her sometimes, i always think of ';what would things be like if....'; i am married now and i am pretty much over that girl. i am friends with her but i will never forget her. keep this in mind.
If he likes you, he is going to get hurt. If he's not a wuss, he'll get over it. If he is a wuss, you probably don't want him anyway.



Grow some balls and do the deed. Don't worry about hurting his feelings... rejection sucks, but it would suck more for him to find out that you've been contemplating this for six months and he had no idea.



Also, don't bone guy number two until you've cut things off with guy number one. That's just dirty.



Hope that helps!

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