How to break up with your boyfriend and make him think it's his fault?

i'm dating someone and i realize that they are not the greatest person, and i'm still madly in love with my ex boyfriend. i know now that it was wrong to get into a relationship so soon after breaking up but i was confused and i made stupid choices. I now need to find a certain way to break up with him without me being the bad person, mainly because I don't wanna hurt him, and because I don't wanna lose friends. HELP!How to break up with your boyfriend and make him think it's his fault?
Just be a crap girlfriend. Guys do it all the time to get girls to break up with them. Don't make time for him, be a bad listener, be lazy, anything you know he doesn't like. Unless he's blindly in love with you, he'll end it.How to break up with your boyfriend and make him think it's his fault?
that's a tough one, but the truth shall set you free. Tell him that you're still having feelings for your ex and that it isn't fair to him to keep at your relationship when your hearts not in it. And that the more time you spend with each other the more differences you notice and that you rushed into a relationship that has lost it's stability. Better to end it now as friends rather than it comes crashing down as enemies.