hey im just wondering how to break up with someone nicely?How to break up with your 7 month boyfriend?
It depends on why you want to break up with him. It's hard to break up with someone, but you have to be honest, tactful and delicate. Don't lie or blame or use cheap cliches. Do it face to face in a private place. No texts or emails or public breakups.
Be more specific if you want better advice!How to break up with your 7 month boyfriend?
You can't. He will be hurt. Seriously. Just be honest.
Be honest in a nice way. It hurts more when you are dishonest and they find out about it, or you don't give an answer and they are left guessing or questioning themselves about their character.
Just be honest, and come straight to the point ! He'll live !
';well i think we should go our seprate ways. you're just not the right person for me. i'd love to still be friends and all but i just think it's time we find other people...now get the **** out of here.'; ok so maybe not the last part but just tell him everything but the get out of here part.
Tell him that he smells bad and needs to shower more often. Also, be sure to slap him across the face when you do it so he is sure to get the message. Other than that, you can pretty much say what you want.
breaking up with someone is never easy just be honest and make it clear you are done with the relationship dont leave him with false hope...tell him why and say you thinks its best if you both move on...good luck be gentle yet firm
Monday, December 12, 2011
What is the best way to break-up with your live-in boyfriend?
I have been with my boyfriend for a little over 1 year and because of his last roommates situation he moved in with me. I knew going into this that it would make or break our relationship, but against everyone else's opinions I let him move in. Now I am constantly cranky and everything that he does(or DOESN'T do) pisses me off. I am not sure how to end it and I know that he doesn't have anywhere to go. WHat should I do? Any Ideas?What is the best way to break-up with your live-in boyfriend?
As long as he remains a live-in boyfriend, nothing will be ';broken up';. If you wish to ';break-up'; with him, you first have to change your living arrangements. Either you have to move out and find some place else to stay or vice versa. Unless you are willing to move out and let him stay there, it looks like you first have to get him out of your house or apartment. As cold hearted as this sounds, it is not your problem that he doesnt have anywhere else to go. There are homeless shelters if he has no relatives willing to accept him. I would also check with any churches in the area. Does he have a job? If so, how much money per month does he make? Maybe he could afford to get his own apartment. You might help him look for a job or make suggestions about where he might start to look if he has no job. But the main idea here is if you want to break it off with this guy, you need to first move him back out of your apartment / house. Unless you 2 plan on getting married anytime soon, it is best if he moves back to where he was staying before or find other living arrangements.What is the best way to break-up with your live-in boyfriend?
Let him know how you feel up front no beating behind the bush, give him a month to look for a place to live.
Tell him the situation isn't working at that you need your space.
move without telling him
let him know it is not working, and then give him a month to find a new place to live. Be firm, but offer to help him find a place and support him as a friend.
Call your local Shelter! You should be happy and comfortable!...But I'll tell you the truth when he moves out you two will get back together! Trust me. You just weren't ready for the living together stuff yet!
Yeah. Say: Get you triflin' worthless lazy shiftless A$$ th fu%$ out! TODAY!!!
Tell him to get a job and look for a place. Tell him to go live with his parents or sleep in his car. Let him catch you making out with another guy if he doesn't get the hint. That will make him feel a little more like he has worn out his welcome.
As long as he remains a live-in boyfriend, nothing will be ';broken up';. If you wish to ';break-up'; with him, you first have to change your living arrangements. Either you have to move out and find some place else to stay or vice versa. Unless you are willing to move out and let him stay there, it looks like you first have to get him out of your house or apartment. As cold hearted as this sounds, it is not your problem that he doesnt have anywhere else to go. There are homeless shelters if he has no relatives willing to accept him. I would also check with any churches in the area. Does he have a job? If so, how much money per month does he make? Maybe he could afford to get his own apartment. You might help him look for a job or make suggestions about where he might start to look if he has no job. But the main idea here is if you want to break it off with this guy, you need to first move him back out of your apartment / house. Unless you 2 plan on getting married anytime soon, it is best if he moves back to where he was staying before or find other living arrangements.What is the best way to break-up with your live-in boyfriend?
Let him know how you feel up front no beating behind the bush, give him a month to look for a place to live.
Tell him the situation isn't working at that you need your space.
move without telling him
let him know it is not working, and then give him a month to find a new place to live. Be firm, but offer to help him find a place and support him as a friend.
Call your local Shelter! You should be happy and comfortable!...But I'll tell you the truth when he moves out you two will get back together! Trust me. You just weren't ready for the living together stuff yet!
Yeah. Say: Get you triflin' worthless lazy shiftless A$$ th fu%$ out! TODAY!!!
Tell him to get a job and look for a place. Tell him to go live with his parents or sleep in his car. Let him catch you making out with another guy if he doesn't get the hint. That will make him feel a little more like he has worn out his welcome.
What is the best way to move on after your boyfriend breaks up with you?
me ex and I recently broke up and for him he says hes moved on but for me its still very hard he says we can still be friends and i want that but it makes me sad wen i think about all we did together and now he is already interseted in a girl hes been friends with for a while. I dont know how to move on and if i shud still b firnmds with him or not?What is the best way to move on after your boyfriend breaks up with you?
honeyyy move on..sorry to say he's not thinking about you soo why think about him? i think the best way to move on is to do something that makes you forget about him! like hanging wit cha girls....What is the best way to move on after your boyfriend breaks up with you?
Don't be friends. In fact avoid the guy like the plague. Your well being and sanity are more important then his friendship. Chances are that was just a line anyways. That is a common line that people use to let the dumpee down easily.
Urgh.. Ive been there.. Trust me time heals all..
You can help speed up the process by taking time for YOU and doing the things you love to get your mind off him
I find that helps
As soon as you start dating, the feelings should go away. If not, it means that you have real feelings for him and that's a bummer. But yeah, social life usually works for me. Hang out with your friends etc.
If you really loved him and cared about him it doesnt matter what you do , your still going to think about him . It takes time . You can however find other things to do to keep your mind busy while this is happening to you . Find a new hobby , photography or something . Surround yourself with friends and maybe even date a lil here and there . At first you are going to compare every other guy you date to him , so dont even try to get into anything serious . Just go have fun !
Good Luck ~
you heal yourself first, then keep yourself busy with other things of importance to you. after that you can now open yourself with new possibilities to get involve with new love life.
do things you like, talk to family and/or friends, find new hobbies. keep yourself occupied.
date a couple guys even go on blind dates
I once heard that ';If ex's break up and remain friends they were never truly in love.';
What I think you should do is: go out and buy an outfit that makes you feel amazing. Get a bunch of your best girl friends together and have a ball out on the town. Go to a couple of bars, see a movie, do something. Just don't sit at home. That is the worse thing you can do. And if you can't find anyone to go with you then go out by yourself and meet new people. Make a list of all things you wanted to do and do them. Take up square dancing. Learn a new language or how to cook. Dance in the rain. Anything but stay home and think about him and feel sorry for yourself. Challenge yourself by saying if you don't say his name or linger in thoughts about him for the day treat yourself to something fun. Just go and do! When you sit down and cry you are slowly killing who you are. Be you!
If you still have feelings for him, then being friends won't work. I've tried this before, but me and my ex ended up fighting because I wanted more. Give it some time...once you are over it, then you can try to be friends.
that ******! just get a new one girl thats what i do dont let no one and i mean no one put you down.
find another boyfriend.
honeyyy move on..sorry to say he's not thinking about you soo why think about him? i think the best way to move on is to do something that makes you forget about him! like hanging wit cha girls....What is the best way to move on after your boyfriend breaks up with you?
Don't be friends. In fact avoid the guy like the plague. Your well being and sanity are more important then his friendship. Chances are that was just a line anyways. That is a common line that people use to let the dumpee down easily.
Urgh.. Ive been there.. Trust me time heals all..
You can help speed up the process by taking time for YOU and doing the things you love to get your mind off him
I find that helps
As soon as you start dating, the feelings should go away. If not, it means that you have real feelings for him and that's a bummer. But yeah, social life usually works for me. Hang out with your friends etc.
If you really loved him and cared about him it doesnt matter what you do , your still going to think about him . It takes time . You can however find other things to do to keep your mind busy while this is happening to you . Find a new hobby , photography or something . Surround yourself with friends and maybe even date a lil here and there . At first you are going to compare every other guy you date to him , so dont even try to get into anything serious . Just go have fun !
Good Luck ~
you heal yourself first, then keep yourself busy with other things of importance to you. after that you can now open yourself with new possibilities to get involve with new love life.
do things you like, talk to family and/or friends, find new hobbies. keep yourself occupied.
date a couple guys even go on blind dates
I once heard that ';If ex's break up and remain friends they were never truly in love.';
What I think you should do is: go out and buy an outfit that makes you feel amazing. Get a bunch of your best girl friends together and have a ball out on the town. Go to a couple of bars, see a movie, do something. Just don't sit at home. That is the worse thing you can do. And if you can't find anyone to go with you then go out by yourself and meet new people. Make a list of all things you wanted to do and do them. Take up square dancing. Learn a new language or how to cook. Dance in the rain. Anything but stay home and think about him and feel sorry for yourself. Challenge yourself by saying if you don't say his name or linger in thoughts about him for the day treat yourself to something fun. Just go and do! When you sit down and cry you are slowly killing who you are. Be you!
If you still have feelings for him, then being friends won't work. I've tried this before, but me and my ex ended up fighting because I wanted more. Give it some time...once you are over it, then you can try to be friends.
that ******! just get a new one girl thats what i do dont let no one and i mean no one put you down.
find another boyfriend.
Whats the Best Way to Break-Up with Your boyfriend of 1 month?
So one of my besties has officially decided she no longer wants to be in a relationship. Her boyfriend absolutely adors hers, and treats her like a princess. But she is more of a tom-boy jock and would rather not be in a relationship anymore. They've been dating for a month and she feels that its not working, how should she end it with him? She's horrible at confrontation and wants to text-message break up. She's indian by the way and shes not allowed to date. What should she do?Whats the Best Way to Break-Up with Your boyfriend of 1 month?
Whatever she does, she shouldnt do it over text. He is going to be really upset, and if she has any respect for him she will do it in person. She just needs to be honest and say she doesn't want a relationship right now, and it has nothing to do with him. Its only one month, he will get over it.Whats the Best Way to Break-Up with Your boyfriend of 1 month?
Just tell him to his face that she feels it isn't working out. Doing it by texting is being a big jerk.
Text-message break ups are just low. It just shows immaturity. If she wants to do it without crushing him, she needs to do it in person. And they've only been together for one month. Tell her she needs to simply be honest and let him know that she doesn't feel like what they have is working for her. In person.
i think that she should just tell him that its not working out and let him go. if she keeps waiting it will hurt him even more!
Honestly, she shouldn't do it through text. Just have her go up to him and explain everything in person. It's not his fault, it's just how she feels. The truth is a good idea, and in person shows you care bit more than through textemail research court cases
Whatever she does, she shouldnt do it over text. He is going to be really upset, and if she has any respect for him she will do it in person. She just needs to be honest and say she doesn't want a relationship right now, and it has nothing to do with him. Its only one month, he will get over it.Whats the Best Way to Break-Up with Your boyfriend of 1 month?
Just tell him to his face that she feels it isn't working out. Doing it by texting is being a big jerk.
Text-message break ups are just low. It just shows immaturity. If she wants to do it without crushing him, she needs to do it in person. And they've only been together for one month. Tell her she needs to simply be honest and let him know that she doesn't feel like what they have is working for her. In person.
i think that she should just tell him that its not working out and let him go. if she keeps waiting it will hurt him even more!
Honestly, she shouldn't do it through text. Just have her go up to him and explain everything in person. It's not his fault, it's just how she feels. The truth is a good idea, and in person shows you care bit more than through text
How to break up with your boyfriend because he chose his friends over me?
me and my boyfriend were happy until this person ryan, came in the picture. Our relationship has lasted for 16 months now. Ryan is my boyfriend's best friend. We had broken up 3 times because ryan said that i wasn't the perfect girlfriend or good enough for him. On july of this year ryan and my boyfriend stopped talking to each other. Now i told my boyfriend not to throw the friendship away for some stupid misunderstanding. My boyfriend finally called him this week, and ever since then, they've been friends. The problem started now he's spending all his time with him when he's not working.. The reasons that broke us apart was ryan, and now the same thing is happening again. He's lying to me and using me.
help!How to break up with your boyfriend because he chose his friends over me?
Tell him how you feel, and ask him why he feels the need to treat you the way he does when Ryan is in the picture. Tell him that you deserve better treatment, and that since he apparantly does not feel the same way, it is time for the two of you to go seperate ways.How to break up with your boyfriend because he chose his friends over me?
you could try to avoid ryan or take the hard aproach and bring it down on your bf, but you have to remember that everyone has feelings so try to let him down easy say something like you just dont see any MORE future with him, trust me it always works. but then ask him if you 2 could still br friends incase you want to still hang out with him
Well if he really does he won't mind and if he don't he'll come crawling back without them ... Just do it. It is a win win situation for you...
Be friend to his bestfriend!
Well first off if you know how he acted with ryan then you shouldnt have told him to call him. You should have just let them start back talking if it was ment to be. But I think if you still want to be friends then tell him'; I think were better off as friends';. If not then just tell him ';I dont see where this relationship could possibly be going, It's over';
If he really wants you he'll try and make it up to you. If no then you didnt need him no way.
help!How to break up with your boyfriend because he chose his friends over me?
Tell him how you feel, and ask him why he feels the need to treat you the way he does when Ryan is in the picture. Tell him that you deserve better treatment, and that since he apparantly does not feel the same way, it is time for the two of you to go seperate ways.How to break up with your boyfriend because he chose his friends over me?
you could try to avoid ryan or take the hard aproach and bring it down on your bf, but you have to remember that everyone has feelings so try to let him down easy say something like you just dont see any MORE future with him, trust me it always works. but then ask him if you 2 could still br friends incase you want to still hang out with him
Well if he really does he won't mind and if he don't he'll come crawling back without them ... Just do it. It is a win win situation for you...
Be friend to his bestfriend!
Well first off if you know how he acted with ryan then you shouldnt have told him to call him. You should have just let them start back talking if it was ment to be. But I think if you still want to be friends then tell him'; I think were better off as friends';. If not then just tell him ';I dont see where this relationship could possibly be going, It's over';
If he really wants you he'll try and make it up to you. If no then you didnt need him no way.
What do you do after you break up with your boyfriend?
im 15 and my ex was 17, we were together for 7 months but he cheated %26amp; he got very violent so i decided to leave him before it got any worse...
but its been really hard, its been 2 weeks now since i last saw him and im finding it so hard, like crying alot and stuff..is that normal? like i still have feelings for him, even though he treated me badly..everyone says why do i still love him after what he does but i really dont know?????...
the day after we broke up..i found out he had been flirtin online with girls and stuff..that hurt me..even though we wasnt together..i dont know why though???
then yesterday he'd been texting me sayin he misses me and everything..i dont reply or anything
right now im feeling really depressed about everything becuase i feel like i need him here and i still love him but the first week after the break up i was kinda ok..i kept myself busy with friends and school and im trying to do that now but it doesnt seem to work..
i met a guy too but when i was with him a few days ago i couldnt even hug him becuase all i kept thinking was i need my ex here..not you..
like how long does it take you to get over your ex???
is this normal to still have feelings for them coz it feels like im never gunna get over him?
how long has it taken other ppl to get over thier ex's??
has anyone ever been out with someone violent and left them?
What do you do after you break up with your boyfriend?
Yes, it is hard after the break up. Yes, you are normal... as far as ';normal'; is.
So what if he was flirting online? Things like these go on all the time. Always let people do things that will enrich their lives as well as yours. Besides, if he prefers those tramps to you, him have them. There is only one thing worse than getting what you want... You need to learn to look at the big picture.
Now as far a needing someone that is ';very violent'; around you... you need to see about getting professional help for that before you wind up dead. And I am no professional doctor or anything, but I say stay as far away from that ';very violent'; person as you can... or you might wind up dead. I am dead serious, just look in any morgue. There are plenty of dead girls and guys that stayed around their violent partners.
See other guys. Learn to enjoy your life. Do all the fun things they want to do with you. After all, if these are not the good times, when are they?
Good luck.
but its been really hard, its been 2 weeks now since i last saw him and im finding it so hard, like crying alot and stuff..is that normal? like i still have feelings for him, even though he treated me badly..everyone says why do i still love him after what he does but i really dont know?????...
the day after we broke up..i found out he had been flirtin online with girls and stuff..that hurt me..even though we wasnt together..i dont know why though???
then yesterday he'd been texting me sayin he misses me and everything..i dont reply or anything
right now im feeling really depressed about everything becuase i feel like i need him here and i still love him but the first week after the break up i was kinda ok..i kept myself busy with friends and school and im trying to do that now but it doesnt seem to work..
i met a guy too but when i was with him a few days ago i couldnt even hug him becuase all i kept thinking was i need my ex here..not you..
like how long does it take you to get over your ex???
is this normal to still have feelings for them coz it feels like im never gunna get over him?
how long has it taken other ppl to get over thier ex's??
has anyone ever been out with someone violent and left them?
What do you do after you break up with your boyfriend?
Yes, it is hard after the break up. Yes, you are normal... as far as ';normal'; is.
So what if he was flirting online? Things like these go on all the time. Always let people do things that will enrich their lives as well as yours. Besides, if he prefers those tramps to you, him have them. There is only one thing worse than getting what you want... You need to learn to look at the big picture.
Now as far a needing someone that is ';very violent'; around you... you need to see about getting professional help for that before you wind up dead. And I am no professional doctor or anything, but I say stay as far away from that ';very violent'; person as you can... or you might wind up dead. I am dead serious, just look in any morgue. There are plenty of dead girls and guys that stayed around their violent partners.
See other guys. Learn to enjoy your life. Do all the fun things they want to do with you. After all, if these are not the good times, when are they?
Good luck.
Sunday, November 21, 2010
Girls: would you break up with your boyfriend like this? what would you call this?
ok you dont have feelings for your bf anymore!! would you stop talking to him again (myspace, facebook, phone, text) or cheat or move on? without telling him how you feel??
P.S. he didnt cheat or do anything bad to you he's even gave you a second chance in being with him in the past!Girls: would you break up with your boyfriend like this? what would you call this?
break up with him. use that ';its not you, its me'; thing. but dont just stop talking to him altogether without telling him why. thats messed upGirls: would you break up with your boyfriend like this? what would you call this?
I would just break up with him right away.
Don't cheat or anything like that. Break up first, then find another guy.
ohh well your the bad person in this. i guess you should do the right thing. say your not good enoug for him. and then go with some other guy. that makes him feel better and then you get to move on without anybody knowing.
I would say ';Hey, I don't have feelings for you anymore. Buh-bye.';
Would anyone be willing to answer mine please?
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P.S. he didnt cheat or do anything bad to you he's even gave you a second chance in being with him in the past!Girls: would you break up with your boyfriend like this? what would you call this?
break up with him. use that ';its not you, its me'; thing. but dont just stop talking to him altogether without telling him why. thats messed upGirls: would you break up with your boyfriend like this? what would you call this?
I would just break up with him right away.
Don't cheat or anything like that. Break up first, then find another guy.
ohh well your the bad person in this. i guess you should do the right thing. say your not good enoug for him. and then go with some other guy. that makes him feel better and then you get to move on without anybody knowing.
I would say ';Hey, I don't have feelings for you anymore. Buh-bye.';
Would anyone be willing to answer mine please?
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20090710120629AA7qTRr%26amp;r=w
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