How do you break up with your boyfriend; if you are the first one he had sex with but he is not your first?

ok my friend has been with this guy for about 4 months and she has tried to break up with him twice but the first time HE cried for her back and the sec. time he told her that she was his first interaction, but the kiker is he lied to her about his virganty; he told her that he lost it at 15 but he didnt. so now she fells guilty and she peties him. she wants to break up with him bc he cries way to much, and when she was sick he wouldnt quite touching her and trying to kiss her, oh and he already gave her a ingagement ring and he is only 17 and shes 16 and she is not ready for that, he wants her to have his baby. hell no i think but she wanted others oppion.

so im asking on her behalf what should she do; keep this guy or kick him to the curb?How do you break up with your boyfriend; if you are the first one he had sex with but he is not your first?
Kick it to the curb. He's 17, but needs to learn how to grow up. Its ok to cry, but the way you described it make that guy sound like a total wimp, pushover and pussy. Let him know of course in a nice way. If he cries, he'll get over it. Thats what we are desigened to do, move on if something bad happens. TCHow do you break up with your boyfriend; if you are the first one he had sex with but he is not your first?
Why on earth would she keep him? So she could live her entire life for pity of this pathetic guy?

No way. Tell her to lose him. He sounds a little unstable. And she has to be strong enough to ignore him if he cries or whatever else he does to manipulate her feelings.
the guys a creep. he is too attahced to her.

DUMP HISS BUTT :)
Well, I think she should hold out for a MAN to get married to.. Besides, she is WAY too young to be getting married... Breaking up is hard, but I can tell you, marriage and then getting divorced, with kids is the hardest. I think she just needs to be strong. She needs to point blank tell him that she is sorry, but she can't do this any more... If he starts to cry and she has pity, then it is really her own fault since she can't break up with him. She just needs to not take his calls or anything.



It is hard, but do-able... Been there and done that.
What a P**SY! she needs a real man!

Tell him that your friend is have sex with other guys already.
When you are the first person to have sex with someone it does tend to make that person get very attached. She can not worry about how bad it hurts him. He is 17! He will have plenty of other women in his life just as she will have many other men. I think it is a little young to get married. She just needs to tell him that she wants to meet other people and have more experiences and to tell him to do the same. Your heart can't help who it loves...
I think she really needs to let him go and tell him exactly why after that no contact..they are young and life goes and she may be the 1st and the last to take his virginity but she wont be the last to break his heart..Believe me he'll get over it..
She needs to just dump him and pity him from afar.
if he crys a lot then he just a baby and will never be a grown man. If hes ready 4 marriage and shes not then that isnt a good relationships including she 2 young and has a life that she needs to injoy first b4 all this.
well....... honestly i have been in a relationship for 5 months and when i broke up with my boy7friend he cried t0o get me back i thought he was t0o soft for me and i HATE da soft type i love da aggresive type but yea and i had to realize that if a boy,man is cryin he really d0oes care about u maybe he just d0oesnt want t0o loose her the things you say about her boyfriend remind me of mine seriously everything!!!!!!!(scary) but yea and sometimes i think he is t0o soft for me and i wanna break up with him but maybe he really wants t0o be with your friend maybe he just aint a HIT IT AND QUIT GUY she should be happy dat he most boys all say they want females to have they baby its just some dumb **** they always say cuz they think that females like that