Monday, December 12, 2011

How do you break up with your boyfriend who you want to stay good friends with?

I have been dating one of my best friends for 2 1/2 months now and I feel that we were better as friends. He always seems down and upset while we are together. He almost said I love you last week while we were talking on the phone. Tomorrow we are supposed to do something but I don't want to string him along if I feel like we should break up. But at the same time I don't know if I really want to break up with him. We just don't seem to have the same interests anymore. Like I love musicals and he just doesn't and Isn't willing to go see them with me even though we are dating. If we do break up I want to stay friends...How would I go about doing this???How do you break up with your boyfriend who you want to stay good friends with?
Sorry, it's just not possible imo.How do you break up with your boyfriend who you want to stay good friends with?
U can never be friends with an ex. Either you will still have feelings or they will.
im sure he wont be too upset considering its only be 2 and a half months.

let him down lightly.

he'll be able to take it, and do it as soon as possible, because that would be stringing him along.

and if you would like to remain friends i reccommend you do it face to face,
Make sure it doesn't take him by surprise. Slowly lead him too it and then when the time is right just do it. I've had friends who are still very good friends with thier ex's its just kinda akward at first but then gets a lot better.
you cant be friends with a ex
Well tell him just that. There is really no easy way to say it. just start out with saying that you really love him with all of ur heart but as a friend. and the realationship really isnt working out for you, but you still want to be good friends. Make sure to listen to what he has to say.... He may be a bit upset but trust me he will cool off soon. Good luck
Its hard to stay friends. Its just awkward, you will probably lose him for a while, but maybe you will become friends in the future again. If he seems down when you are together, he might have the same feelings as you. Try talking to one of your mutual trusting friends about it. They may know more about what he is feeling than you do.
Lie! who says u cant be friends with ur ex?i broke up with mine and one day i sent him a message saying ';are we still friends?';and he responded ';i thought u were mad at me...'; and i said ';no'; and we've been hanging out ever since!=]
i think it would be really hard to still be friends with him. either way, you shouldn't string him along; either you like him or you dont and it seems that you dont feel like you did earlier in your relationship; maybe you like the idea of being in a relationship, but youre not particularly attracted to the guy anymore. if you choose to break up, definitely keep in mind his feelings and try not to hurt him, especially since you said he almost told you he loves you
Maybe there is a reason he is down and upset why don't you try help him and ask him why he is sad around you and if he is happy with you? If you are unsure to end the relationship I wouldn't jump into it, as you may look around and realize you wasn't ready to loose him like that. It will be tough for you both to go back to being friends straight away as it'll be very weird for him and you.



Just because you don't like the same things, like a musical that's not a problem? Go and see a musical with your friends who enjoy them. Having things in common isn't a key thing in a relationship, its fun love trust and happiness. And if you don't have them then its pretty pointless I guess. But just work on it, if you still like him don't give up on him just yet.





Good luck x

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