How to break up with your boyfriend for the second time?

Ive been friends with this boy for about a year now.About 3 weeks ago he asked me out.Since i used to be his best friend i would always help him threw his break ups.The other day i realized i only liked him as a friend and i explained i couldnt date him anymore.Later that day i thought I made a mistake an i told him that and i know i shouldnt have gone back out with him.He rushes things alot and i dont like that.He got me a necklace that says my name and i love you on the back.Im afraid if i break up with him that ill hurt him forever and i dont want that.I was thinking of sending signals but what kinda signals?He says hes ';in love with me';.So no matter what i do hell probably still like me.Hes just that kinda guy.So what should i do?



thanks~How to break up with your boyfriend for the second time?
Sounds like you've made a mess of things, to be really honest. However, all is not lost, honey. You just have to be honest, completely and utterly. Don't do it over text. It's hard but you owe it to him to do it in person. Think about him and his feelings, not yourself when you do it. I'm not saying you are selfish or anything, but it's easy to get caught up in ourselves when we are dumping people, because we still want them in our lives just 'not in that way'. You have to keep in mind he probably will be very, very hurt and might not talk to you for a while. Without knowing him, that could be a matter of days, weeks or even longer. Since you are doing the dumping, you'll have to accept that and realise he is probably going through more pain and upset than you. If he badgers you afterwards, telling you he loves you, don't take pity and go out with him again. Again, just be honest and admit you made a mistake. Tell him you will be there to be his friend when he is ready. That you love who he is, but do not 'love' him in that way.



Hope that helped!