How to break up with your boyfriend in the nicest way possible?

He's my very first boyfriend and he's a great great great guy.


He's extremely smart, he has gorgeous eyes, he's buff, he's easy to talk to, he's considerate, everything.


he's a great guy, i say this from the bottom of my heart.





I used to love him, or ';like'; if you may say but i'm guessing i'm a bit too young for that kind of stuff.


I'm going to be turning 16 very soon and he's my first boyfriend.


I describe him like he's a girls dream but it's because he is but not in that way for me.


I don't see him as a significant other anymore, he's more like a friend now.


My heart doesn't skip when he does things other couples do, it feels akward and i really dislike the feeling i get, it's like a bit of guilt and a bit of me trying to make him stop all jumbled up.


It's honestly reall y complicated for me, sometimes i wish i just never met him.


I used to be head over heels for him but now, it's not like that aymore, he's like a friend now.





I think i like being single more, it doesn't feel like i have any restrictions set on me.


Please help.How to break up with your boyfriend in the nicest way possible?
I truly believe that you should treat others the way you want to be treated. So, try putting yourself in his position. How would you want someone to break the news to you?





You didn't cite that there's anything really wrong with him. It's just that you want to move on and try dating other people. There's nothing wrong with that, especially at 15 years old.





Tell him that he's a great guy but you don't feel the same way about him as you used to and that you'd like to see other people.





No matter how you tell him, it's going to hurt his feelings because he's not going to see it coming. But being honest and forthright without being harsh is the way to go. Let him down easily, but truthfully.How to break up with your boyfriend in the nicest way possible?
Just walk away and cut all contact. He'll wonder what happened, but it's easier for both of you in the end if there's no confrontation or miserable lies to try and make either of you 'feel better'. Eventually you'll both be able to move on...
First - Tell ONLY the truth, obviously =) you don't want him thinking he's done something wrong or anything. Tell him you just.. feel differently now, and you feel like you'd rather be friends etc. And as special as he is, you want to go out and have fun and live the single life for a while. Hope that helps, GL!
Tell him all that, make him feel important to you, but as a friend.


There's no perfect way to break up with a guy if he really likes you.


Chances are though, he feels the same way.


The chemistry dies in a lot of relationships and both people can feel it.


Just talk to him.


Good luck!





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the first thing you do is just talk to him for a little bit and say something that u dont like about him then be like im not gonna give u a lie your really great and all but i dont fell the same about you anymore i am sooo sorry but i want to break up
You have to tell him the truth. It's not fair to either of you to continue this way. Also, what happens if you do get feelings for another guy? It will hurt him more if you have to tell him this, so do it now before any other factors come into play.
good for you it seems like you gave up on trying to mend things with him so youll probably regret that for sure one day,he might still be restricted so try to lift that off him and good luck in the future
I totally know what u mean!! Just tell him how you feel, about the young and needing to be free. Tell him maybe later but right now you're young and wanna live ur life. If all else fails tell him you think you're attracted to women:)
i no how you feel just explain to him that you dont feel the way that he explain your feelings and tell him you are truely sorry but you find him more as a friend then a boyfriend
Tell him you don't love him anymore.
sleep with his best friend and he will break up with you. Then you don't have to worry about it
The way you're telling us is nice and truthful. Just sit down with him and tell him honestly how you feel.. He will understand.
dang ur **** to long too read so just say im dying with cancer aww sorry never call me again =]
Just be honest and tell him how you feel...be quick and to the point don't drag it out
oh god, i was in the exact same situation when i got my first bf too..and i guess this is natural and many of my friends had freaked out when they were suddenly in a relationship..


When you are used in all that freedom it feels weird to be involved with someone and i understand what you say that it feels awkward when you kiss for example because you don't have feelings any more..


The solution? Talk to him..it's not the end of the world.explain him exactly what you feel, you are so young and you need freedom, it was sth new for new and you still care about him (you wanna stay friends right?) but not be a couple any more


This doesn't mean he will never talk to you again..be honest and tell him the truth, he doesn't deserve to be treated like that


i took the decision and broke up with that amazing guy, and i know i was stupid to let him go but you know what? just because he is every girl's dream doesn't mean he is the right for you as well..my current bf is a mess, he is funny and he is shy but he is the right for me


that is why we still date :P good luck girl
1.) you say that you ';used to love him'; which means that you never loved him and thats okay.


2.) Your 16, and its rare to keep someone that age for the rest of your life, you have to live love and enjoy life.


3.)If your feeling restricted than you should definitally break up with him. The easiest way to tell him, is to say that you do like him (even if its a lie, sugarcoating helps a lot), but right now is not the time for you to be in a relationship. Tell him that you want to focus on school. Elaborate on that and put it into your own words.





Basically you are feeling trapped and trapped isnt good at all and its not healthy. Dont look for love it will come to you, there is no rush. And one day when you do feel that the world is standing still and your heart skips a beat when u meet the man of your dreams you will know that it is all worth it.
There is nothing wrong with the way you are feeling, so there is no need to feel guilt in ending this. You are very young and are allowed to be free. Just be honest with him.





See, the thing is, if you're too nice, or you say you're into girls or any other bs, he'll know you're lying and it will hurt him much more than the truth would. Give him the respect he deserves as a great guy and play it cool. Tell him the truth.