What do you do after you break up with your boyfriend?

im 15 and my ex was 17, we were together for 7 months but he cheated %26amp; he got very violent so i decided to leave him before it got any worse...

but its been really hard, its been 2 weeks now since i last saw him and im finding it so hard, like crying alot and stuff..is that normal? like i still have feelings for him, even though he treated me badly..everyone says why do i still love him after what he does but i really dont know?????...

the day after we broke up..i found out he had been flirtin online with girls and stuff..that hurt me..even though we wasnt together..i dont know why though???

then yesterday he'd been texting me sayin he misses me and everything..i dont reply or anything

right now im feeling really depressed about everything becuase i feel like i need him here and i still love him but the first week after the break up i was kinda ok..i kept myself busy with friends and school and im trying to do that now but it doesnt seem to work..

i met a guy too but when i was with him a few days ago i couldnt even hug him becuase all i kept thinking was i need my ex here..not you..

like how long does it take you to get over your ex???

is this normal to still have feelings for them coz it feels like im never gunna get over him?

how long has it taken other ppl to get over thier ex's??

has anyone ever been out with someone violent and left them?



What do you do after you break up with your boyfriend?
Yes, it is hard after the break up. Yes, you are normal... as far as ';normal'; is.



So what if he was flirting online? Things like these go on all the time. Always let people do things that will enrich their lives as well as yours. Besides, if he prefers those tramps to you, him have them. There is only one thing worse than getting what you want... You need to learn to look at the big picture.



Now as far a needing someone that is ';very violent'; around you... you need to see about getting professional help for that before you wind up dead. And I am no professional doctor or anything, but I say stay as far away from that ';very violent'; person as you can... or you might wind up dead. I am dead serious, just look in any morgue. There are plenty of dead girls and guys that stayed around their violent partners.



See other guys. Learn to enjoy your life. Do all the fun things they want to do with you. After all, if these are not the good times, when are they?



Good luck.