Would you break up with your boyfriend because he's not going to college?

My friend is breaking up with her boyfriend because he doesn't want to go to college. Would you do that, or do you not care? Just curious :) I'm not sure on how I would feel about it!Would you break up with your boyfriend because he's not going to college?
I wouldn't do that. My boyfriend is going into the Army after high school. He just needs to graduate and he's ready to go. It's what he wants to do and I support him, plus he supports me in my future plans (college to become a nurse). It's his life, so why should the gf choose for him??Would you break up with your boyfriend because he's not going to college?
ugh...this is a difficult question for me. it depends how close we are. if it's an off and on relationship and i know im not gonna be with him for the rest of my life then no i wouldn't. It would still be okay if he didnt and itsn't a loser who doesnt want anything big out of life, and ends up going to a community college or something. If he couldn't afford it that will be okay to. But if he could afford it or got a scholar ship and decided not to go... i would simply say ('; uhm i think you should really think about college if were gonna be together for a long time ';) because if we end up marrying he's not gonna have a good job and help pay bills. i want someone who is going somewhere with their lives not working just enough to live by struggling
It depends. How old is she? If he intended on doing a trade, and getting a job then no, I wouldn't. That's what he wants to do. If however, he was just being lazy, and couldn't be bothered going to uni, and ';didn't know %26amp; didn't care'; what he was going to do, then I definately might. Especially if she is in her late twenties, and she wants to settle down with him, there is no point wasting her time, if she can't see them getting married and supporting themselves well.
If I was truly in love with him and we were planning to get married some day, it probably wouldn't matter. I would be upset but won't dump him over it.


If he was just a boyfriend and was going into a stable job (one someone can live on) no I wouldn't dump him.


If he was just a boyfriend with no plans or ambitions, yes he would be long gone.
I think it would depend on your conditions and how close you are to graduation.


In my case, my boyfriend, of a year, thinks that when we graduate this coming summer that we are going to Canada. I told him no, and i will probably get my way. But even if we do go to Canada, i would be okay with him not going to college.


He has no job but i do. I have been supporting us with dates and whatever else for the past year, plus i am getting my associates degree while in high school. So we will be at least okay without him going to college.


I also think that if you love someone you won't leave them just because of some silly little choice they make in high school. People change drastically when they get out of high school and into the real world. It's tough out there, you have no choice but to grow up. :D I know i have and i'm only a senior!
I wouldn't break up with him unless he's just a loser and doesn't want to do anything with his life. If that's not the case, I'd encourage him and show him the infinite possibilities college can offer you. College is very rewarding and you can go so far with a college degree.
No i wouldn't, that's his choice, %26amp; he can do whatever he wants with his life. But I will tell you one thing, if he's going to just bum around, not work, or do anything %26amp; become pathetically lazy, with no life, yea, then I'll cut him loose, as long as he had a back up plan. Or had something else in mind.
it depends.


im just starting high school, and thats kind of stuff doesnt matter to me right now. i mean, college is four years away. i doubt ill have a relationship that long (i wouldnt mind it though lol).





anyway, if i was trying to find i life partner,


yes. i couldnt live on like 20,000 dollars a year
If my gf wasnt its not a big deal. and u dont like a person b/c they r smart poor or dumb. its u love thme for them.. if u did dumb the person u shouldnt ever have a gf or bf again. i live in australia and when people dont go to uni they get a job or go to tafe and they get a better job in a diffrent way
oh i would!!


maybe if he was going to do a trade or he has a family business he can take over but if hes a slacker and isn't doing anything for himself, why would you need him around to bring you down?


she's moving on up and hes staying behind.... so yeah id dump him lol.
idk thats a good question


uhm if i was truly in love with this guy and he wasnt a jerk and had some other way of supporting himself after HS and i was okay with it then no.


but if he was just lazy then heck yes i wouldd
No. I wouldn't do that. I'm not like that. Id rather him to do what he wants and be happy. I don't care if he goes to college. Whatever makes him happy :).


Your friend is low.
wow that's extreme. I could care less whether or not my boyfriend chooses to continue his education, it's completely his decision and id support him in whatever he chose to do
No. College isnt for everyone. As long as he doesnt become a bum and use people to pay for everything, I dont care.
Definitely not. That's a stupid reason to break up with someone. It's the guys life and he can do what he wants.
no, i'd encourage him to go into it to help him out throughout life but if it wasn't for him, it wasn't for him
no i wouldn't break up because he don't want to go to college
i wouldn't do that
No. I don't really care. I want to go and he wouldn't influence my decision. But he can do what he chooses : )