Sunday, November 14, 2010

Girls, would you break up with your boyfriend if....?

Would you break up with your boyfriend if he didn't go to your homecoming with you? Like, if he stayed at home that night and did nothing. He is really nice and always tells his gf sweet things, calling her beautiful, wanting to take things slow, and saying how much he loves her cute smile and beautiful eyes.Girls, would you break up with your boyfriend if....?
I'm not a huge fan of dances so even if I decided to go to homecoming, I wouldn't care enough about it to be overly upset if my boyfriend didn't go. Also, my boyfriend tends to avoid dances because he sometimes gets panic attacks in big social situations, so I'd feel awful if I broke up with him because of his anxiety issues. :(



Seriously, maybe your boyfriend just doesn't like dances. They can be fun, sure, but most of the time they're just awkward or boring and people make too big of deals out of them. He obviously cares about you so don't take it personally if he doesn't want to go to one event with you.Girls, would you break up with your boyfriend if....?
no. homecoming isn't a big deal. maybe he just didn't feel like going
No that's a stupid reason to break up with someone
No i would just ask him why he did want to go. that's all.
Of course not. i'm sure he has his reasons even if he doesn't want to discuss them.
Nope :)
No I wouldn't break up with him!
no i wouldnt break up with my boyfriend over that..maybe he just doesnt like homecoming or he just dont wannaa go..ya know..just respect it.
Sweet nothings aren't really part of this situation. I don't think that one night of not wanting to go to a homecomingis a good reason to dump him if you like him a lot.
Probably not. But then I'm not really sure what a homecoming is. If it was something really important to her, you could have really hurt her feelings by not going. But I don't think it was worth breaking up over. She could have just sulked and ignored you for a week or something.
yes
why the heck would he not?

would he be okay with you going with a guy friend? or just taking a girl friend?



dances really aren't that big of a deal though.

some guys just get uncomfortable around dances.



you should not go and surprise him with a fun night that you plan.



:)
common theres nthng to break up if the guy is so sweet then a small reason of not coming to my homecoming will never let me break up yes i will talk abt it in worst case will fight with him bt break up no.........
yes i def would.
I wouldn't break up with him.

But I would be angry/upset that he couldn't take me out to a dance, especially if it meant a lot to me.

Seriously? Just take her out and show her a good time.

I would be very angry if my boyfriend didn't take me. I would probably ask another boy to be my date, just out of spite.

I wouldn't do anything with him, of course.

But why would you want your girlfriend to go alone?

Or with someone else?

That's ridiculous.
No.
Maybe he just wanted to have some guy time. Guys seem to need alone time by themselves more than us women do. Coming from experience....I know where you are coming from.....but at the same time.....if he is still with you and says he cares about you....then he really does. Men usually won't be with a woman and say those things unless they mean it. I wouldn't just dump him over not going to homecoming with you. Honestly....maybe he's not into the whole homecoming thing. I can see if he avoids a lot of social things with you in the future....then maybe you have something to worry about....but for now....just take your time....and enjoy the time you two have when you are both together....men tend to like that more than when you constantly over think things and worry about things that they really don't think are a big deal. I know it may have been a big deal to you....but really...just let it blow over....he might not have thought it was a big deal. Maybe the next time there is a social event....he will be there with you or your friend...if you are posting on behalf of your friend...not sure. Until there's a trend in his behavior.....one time is not something you should blow out of proportion. Hope this helped a little.
no. i would be annoyed if it was important to me and he didnt care.. but its not something to break up over
no
no that would be really dumb to do that

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